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So a couple of years ago I met a guy in Istanbul that I had talked to online..we basically just had cam sex.. I went to Istanbul for school, stopped by to see him, he was a virgin, and I fucked him like mad.that was just for sex..

but lately..I met this guy on omegle. He is french which is perfect because I am living in a department of france..we talk every day on skype with voice ,video...of course I have masturbated on cam for him a few times but at my request I have never seen his cock because I want to keep it a surprise..

Anywyas..after 5 months I really feel like this guy could be it. I am obsessed with him. I try to keep my relationships or see people casually but I always think about him.

Have any of you ever met someone from the internet? For more than just sex? What was your experience like?
 

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I met a girl online, she was from Italy. I was 18, a high school senior and she was 19. We chatted on skype for about 7 months and once the school year was over, she came to visit me.

We spent 2 weeks together and we had the time of our lives. All we did those 2 weeks was go to the beach , eat and then have sex in our room and sometimes on the beach, although I have to admit I did not like the sand so much ;p

The thing is we both knew that this would end after she would return to her country because neither one of us was interested in a long distnace relationship, even though the distance was not that long...

I think we both tried not to fall in love with each other because we knew that it would be very difficult to go back and re-live those 7 frustrating months of intense text chatting and sexting , precisely because we knew that it could never compare to what we experienced those two weeks.
 

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I met my current boyfriend online, and my previous boyfriend as well. My ex and I were together nearly 3 years. He lived about a 12-hour drive away. Our first 14 months were long-distance with him coming to visit every 2-3 months, and then he moved up here. We lived together for about a year and a half, slightly more, when we broke up.

My current boyfriend only lives about a 45 minute drive away, so it's a completely different scenario. I get to see him way more often than I saw my ex. He's a simply amazing person, though, and I've never been happier in my life. I think I finally found my match. We've been together 4.5 months and have already made plans to move in together in August when his lease is up, and he admitted to me last night that he's been planning our wedding. :wink: The funny thing is, it totally doesn't freak me out. That sort of thing normally would, but I've never been more excited to commit my life to someone.

The heart wants what the heart wants - if you like this guy that much, go for it.
 

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i didn't fall in love but it felt like i did with a guy I met at a holiday party in NYC. He was Moroccan but lived in London. Amazing kisser and lover. Sweet and oh so handsome. I'll never forget the month we spent together. Before he got in the taxi to take him to Laguardia, he handed me his e-mail and skype.

We still chat every once in a while. lat time we spoke he had gotten married.... to a woman.... :(
 

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Yeah, It happened to me not so long ago. I became infatuated and all I can still think about is that person. After 6 months of camming and chatting on Skype and planning a trip to see each other it ended abruptly. No contact since and I'm still heartbroken I guess some would put it.
 

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I had a similar experience to HelloMoeJoe. This past summer I met a guy online and we spoke a lot, mainly video chat and phone calls. He lived over a thousand miles away in the U.S., but had told me he was planning a trip to NYC by the end of the summer and that we'd be able to meet. I became deeply infatuated and couldn't wait to meet him. And then after about a month of seriously speaking he just drifted away and stopped returning my texts and calls. I thought I was falling for him and was left heartbroken thinking "what happened?" for months.

I actually reached out to him two weeks ago asking him that very question in a message. He responded by apologizing with an excuse that I didn't really believe. And then we spoke on the phone and video chatted again that weekend, but it isn't the same. I have my guard up and am very cautious about getting fucked over again. He claims he still wants to meet but I am not holding my breath. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy talking to him again, but I've learned my lesson about getting attached to someone from the Internet.

My completely uneducated guess is that maybe 2% of these relationships that start online actually formulate and blossom in real life. But it can happen and it has many times.
 

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I've had a couple of long term relationships with guys I met online. I think the important thing is to not build expectations from online communications (even video). Nothing can replace actual contact and it's very difficult to measure complete physical attraction from pictures or video alone. There's so much more that goes into it besides the visual. I need to see them in person, how they interact with everything, how they smell... just everything.

That's not to say I totally dismiss someone's feelings about an online "partner". I just feel that without meeting someone in person, you're only getting half the total picture.
 

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So a couple of years ago I met a guy in Istanbul that I had talked to online..we basically just had cam sex.. I went to Istanbul for school, stopped by to see him, he was a virgin, and I fucked him like mad.that was just for sex..

but lately..I met this guy on omegle. He is french which is perfect because I am living in a department of france..we talk every day on skype with voice ,video...of course I have masturbated on cam for him a few times but at my request I have never seen his cock because I want to keep it a surprise..

Anywyas..after 5 months I really feel like this guy could be it. I am obsessed with him. I try to keep my relationships or see people casually but I always think about him.

Have any of you ever met someone from the internet? For more than just sex? What was your experience like?


I think you said it yourself, you're obsessed with him. Fixation and love are often different, and while I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I think it's difficult to tell how you and someone get along without interacting in person. People lie. People withhold information. It's hard enough finding love in your day to day life, let alone with someone miles away with whom you only communicate via various media sources. I have not had good experiences with this. But, it's different for everyone.
 

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I had a similar experience to HelloMoeJoe. This past summer I met a guy online and we spoke a lot, mainly video chat and phone calls. He lived over a thousand miles away in the U.S., but had told me he was planning a trip to NYC by the end of the summer and that we'd be able to meet. I became deeply infatuated and couldn't wait to meet him. And then after about a month of seriously speaking he just drifted away and stopped returning my texts and calls. I thought I was falling for him and was left heartbroken thinking "what happened?" for months.

I actually reached out to him two weeks ago asking him that very question in a message. He responded by apologizing with an excuse that I didn't really believe. And then we spoke on the phone and video chatted again that weekend, but it isn't the same. I have my guard up and am very cautious about getting fucked over again. He claims he still wants to meet but I am not holding my breath. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy talking to him again, but I've learned my lesson about getting attached to someone from the Internet.

My completely uneducated guess is that maybe 2% of these relationships that start online actually formulate and blossom in real life. But it can happen and it has many times.


Dateee mee. I love you. :love::spankme:
 

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Great input. Thanks a lot. To be honest, I am just going to try to go with the flow, have fun with this guy and not try to make it something it isn't. I am still seeing people here in real life so it is not like I have completely let go and have just gone too crazy for him or something. And I have done long distance relationships and though they can work, I don't think I would ever want to do it again. I guess only time and experience will tell.
 

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I met a girl here on this site, actually.... it started with me seeing this really pretty girl with curly hair and tattoos in the chat room one night... luckily, she decided to talk to me . ( probably because I wasn't making crude comments and masturbating like a spider monkey on crack!)...
We just connected on so many levels it was amazing. We met, fell in love ... and now I couldn't picture my life without her.
It takes a fair amount of work...... text, calls, pics, videos , Skype, plane tickets ... but totally worth the effort!!

( p.s. The sex is absolutely fucking incredibly good.... BEST EVER!! )
 
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Have any of you ever met someone from the internet?

Most of the people I've met romantically have been from the internet. Its the result of living in a community with a limited social network.

For more than just sex?

I have gone all the way to South Africa to meet someone for more than just sex. I've travelled all the way to Paris for sex. :wink:

What was your experience like?

Mixed results. I've met people on the premise of friendship who remain friends. I've met people on the premise of friendship that have disappeared. I've met people with the expectation of romance that didn't work because we lived very far from each other...or they turned out to be much different from their online personae.

My advice is to stick with friendship. Its nice to have friends in far away places, its rarely nice to have a partner in a far away place.
 
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I had a similar experience to HelloMoeJoe. This past summer I met a guy online and we spoke a lot, mainly video chat and phone calls. He lived over a thousand miles away in the U.S., but had told me he was planning a trip to NYC by the end of the summer and that we'd be able to meet. I became deeply infatuated and couldn't wait to meet him. And then after about a month of seriously speaking he just drifted away and stopped returning my texts and calls. I thought I was falling for him and was left heartbroken thinking "what happened?" for months.

I actually reached out to him two weeks ago asking him that very question in a message. He responded by apologizing with an excuse that I didn't really believe. And then we spoke on the phone and video chatted again that weekend, but it isn't the same. I have my guard up and am very cautious about getting fucked over again. He claims he still wants to meet but I am not holding my breath. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy talking to him again, but I've learned my lesson about getting attached to someone from the Internet.

My completely uneducated guess is that maybe 2% of these relationships that start online actually formulate and blossom in real life. But it can happen and it has many times.
I agree on being wary - don't get sucked in again or set up for disappointment. Just not worth it. :frown1:
 

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I met my ex online..he was 70miles away..not far for some but I would prefer maximum 10 miles away.

I do not do LDR. I prefer around the corner locals.

I really really suck..I mean...I do not video, cam, skype, twitter and text just the necessary.. I am frugal with my money..I will not invest my time in love interest far away. no way.