All this talk around here of virgins and guys that don't know how to get sex with women they know got me doing some research. Seems like a small percent of men grow up being shy about sex and feeling guilty about pursuing sex with girls while other guys just go for it without any inhibitions. So I wonder why some guys grow up feeling like this, and I'd like others to discuss it. I found these things on wikipedia: Love-shyness - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Involuntary celibacy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Average frustrated chump - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia The article on love-shyness in particular hit a chord with me, although I don't think I fit the extreme characteristics described in the love-shy men. Some of the things from the article I found interesting were: Can anyone else here related to any of the stuff in these articles or do you know guys like this? Discuss.