Hello Everyone ~ My name is Jim and I'm a self-employed contractor. My marriage became less than I had hoped when my wife became bi-polar in 1999. It was a devastating blow to our blissful marriage. Since her hospital stay in March of 1999,our sex lives changed dramatically. Her bi-polar medicines and her mood swings have created a "no sexual love" situation. We have not touched each other sexually since October 2007 but still sleep in the same bed. Having said that ~ I have been seeking the sexual love I need outside my home. I have had a two year affair with a 28 year old widow. So I am mainly looking for a woman lover. But ~ I did frottage when I was 11 years old and I'm considering doing it again. This marital problem has greatly affected my ability to get good and hard! Viagra helped a few years ago but my wife's attitude and lack of wetness and participation has taken a mental toll on me I guess. If there is a lady who needs lots of tender love-making ~ or man wanting to try frottage ~ I'd love to talk to you!! I live very close to Charlottesville,Virginia and could meet someone during daytime hours. Thanks for reading my first posting! Anyone willing to talk to me about my situation?? Write soon!