I'm trying to figure out if this will even work, a mature an loving relationship between two adults of the opposite sex, without actual sex. Some friends tell me it's impossible, some say thats what we just call a "friend", but either way this is what I'm looking for, and having difficulty finding. I'm outgoing and friendly, but I don't feel sexually comfortable around girls. I've played around with guys, and learned I'm definitely not gay either. I'm just looking for a caring, sweet girl to love and spend time with, without getting to that point of feeling inappropriate or uncomfortable. I'm not having a very easy time finding a girl of similar perspectives however...and I hoped someone here could share some tips or opinions.