Hey ladies, Recently my girlfriend has been experiencing lower and lower libito. To a point that it is very upsetting. She is never really in the mood anymore, and it is slowly beginning to affect our relationship. She can still enjoy sex, and gets in the mood occasionally, but it is significantly less often then usual, and it often seems to be at times that we can't act upon it. The problem started about 2 months ago, and it hasn't really gotten much worse, but it certainly isn't getting better. She takes tri-cyclen lo, and has been on it for just under a year. I am wondering if any of you have any incite as to what we can do to help her increase her libito, and maybe recommend a birth control that is less likely to affect her libito, or maybe another form of contraceptive that wont do this(NO CONDOMS, PLEASE). Remember that I am always willing to pull out, which is what I do now. The birth control is that back up, which we'd like to keep there. Is there hope for us?