When I was younger, it was very hard for me to understand how older people could be so laid back about sex and just take it in stride. Now that I'm 58, Thank GOD, I have achieved the same Nirvana that they were experiencing. Don't get me wrong, sex is and hopefully always will be a wonderful and gratifying experience but now, I like it in a more esoteric style. I am no longer driven by the hormones to make self-loathing decisions about who I bed down with. Any body out there experiencing the same?