Pecker, in most cases, I would agree with you wholehearedly. Unfortunately, this time that simply did not work. I know I tried, as well as many others, but anyone who expects acceptance of their views while completely denying you that same right is just shallow, thick and slow. There was no other method to make the noise stop that I could find.
As I have said several times, I support anyone's right to feel how they feel, and even to state it, if they find that a useful contribution to a conversation. The one in question went far beyond that to the point of being condemning and derogatory in a way that lent no purpose to the group other than to damage and inflame. It was an unfortunate choice on her part, and we are all ressponsible for our own choices. It was an issue of hideously bad taste. I don't she would have considered it "free speech" if gay people had come to her church to say THEIR views were wrong. Just my view, gays should be able to be free from bashing on the sites they run, god knows they have to endure that enough.