The "ganging up" only happens to idiots, yngjock20. Opposing the general thought process here is not an issue. People, well-respected people, do it all the time. A lot of it has to do with how you oppose. Do it intelligently, and with respect, and you will receive the same in return. Come across as a jerk, and again, you will receive the same in return.Something that I've been a little afraid to talk about because there's quite a bit of ganging up that can happen when you oppose the general thought process here, but I've decided to ask it anyway.
... building up to the big question(s):Are there straight men in here that have felt pressured to become more accepting of the same sex's advances on this site?
I will try to be nice, and not gang up on you.There are alot of guys who do wish to show off, but not to men; however since this site is 98% male, it's more than likely that the only people who want to see their cock is another male.
See, the problem with your post above, is that you are comingling several issues here. Looking at your pictures, and coming on to you, are absolutely unrelated. Personally, I'm not a "gallery-hound." Far less than one percent of my LPSG time is spent in the galleries. And if I posted dik-pix, I would not really care who looked at them. If a guy looks at your pix, but does not try to contact you, what damage is done? Is your hesitation really that you don't want guys looking at your pix, or that you don't want guys making offers to you?
It's been my experience on LPSG that the trolls are the ones that get ganged up on, and labelled, not those who get tired of trolls.When the guy gets angred by the constant and often irritatingly redundant PM's like "I like you big dick. Pleez show me now" and voices his complaint, he's called a "homophobe" and a "troll" who got what he asked for by posting his pics.
Ha, now you know how the poor ladies feel when the straight guys send them the "rate-my-dick" PMs repeatedly, despite requests to the contrary.
It's always easy to put a "no solicitations from guys, please" in your profile or your sig line. Those who ignore such polite requests should be outed and publicly humiliated.
And the converse is true... no need for you to cast aspersions on those of us who have NOT been trolling the straight guys.I'm not defending those who have given more than enough evidence to be called a basher, but those who have become tired of the constant emails and soliciting regardless of your rejection.
Even moreso, do you feel now that you have to "join 'em" since you can't beat them?