When you look around the number of friends members have varies greatly. It's doesn't appear to have a lot to do with how long someone has been a member or even gender status. Members that have a large list, is it driven by seeing how many they can collect or do they really talk to these people? The reverse, members that have few or none are they not interested in collecting friends or just here to surf the site? This is just something I ponder sometimes and would like to hear others opinions.