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Well let me start this off: This is not a gay bashing post what so ever. I happened to see a lot of posts lately from new straight men who are baffled by the percentage of gays and bi's around here. Honestly, some of us live in southern states, off the beaten path where we don't know very many bi's or gays. I was raised with a gay brother and he stuck out like a sore thumb growing up around here.

My husbands work offers gay benefits and i've come across more gay men and women since becoming an adult. We never talk about sex related topics (mainly because its not appropriate for the event) and I've always had a wonderful time.

I think the influx in these types of posts lately are from people who truly don't have much exposure to those of a different orientation. Since coming to LPSG i've reconsidered my own orientation from 100% straight to 80%.

I know it's hard to imagine there are people who don't have a crowd of gay friends and have no problems hearing about their intimate lives. If these people decide to stick around for long they will get used to it or leave. I have no problems reading anything from the gay men about gay sex. If its something i dont have a particular interest in i don't read it- gay or straight.

I'm thankful there are gay men here because there does seem to be a reputation of respect that some straight men around here can't figure out. We've had complaints of the ridiculous types of PMs the ladies get and they arent getting them from gay men.

I know that 100% straight men want loads of comments from the ladies only or to cam with a woman only. But they shouldnt be offended if a gay man compliments them on their body or cock. After all a compliment is a compliment. Who knows cock better than a gay man anyway?

So if you are reading this and feel you are sorely outnumbered because you are a straight man, dont feel that way. If you are a decent person then you have something to contribute. It's not a good idea to stroll around flaming the percentages. You'll soon get used to reading about their lives and admire them for their success in their life. Some of them are the most compassionate, generous and intelligent people you'll ever meet. Some have been married to women and have children and have an aspect on straight topics and a perspective on orientation unlike most.

You can't expect to start threads that will put people on the defense. They have had to be on the defense for most of their lives for what they believe in.

If you are offended you'll miss out on some really good stuff- and some good compliments as well.
 

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Since coming to LPSG i've reconsidered my own orientation from 100% straight to 80%.

Boobies and pussies are wonderful, aren't they? :wink:

and you KNOW this because..................?:mad:

Because she's seen any number of posts from them that begin along the lines of "I'm looking for responses from the ladies only..."

So have I, and so have you.

I'm sure you understood the thrust of her post just fine...there's really no call for such pedantry.
 

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Because she's seen any number of posts from them that begin along the lines of "I'm looking for responses from the ladies only..."

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Who are they as a hetrosexual male I find this kind of altitude extremely
patronising they are this ... they are that.. sorry but it makes me really cross
 

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It is a generalisation - and as a hetro male who doesn't fit the generalisation it's almost bound to annoy you. However, when it comes to sex and sexual discussion the hetro male probably has the widest field to work in vis a vis general acceptance of behaviours, practises and so on. So if you feel a litle picked on here when hetro males are generalised about, well, you know how us sluts, frigid bitches, queers and degenerates feel, a little, huh?
 

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I posted this so many times before...It's getting boring for me to keep saying it...but here goes. There is nothing about me that is gay...I just prefer to sleep with men!
BTW Nice post...Thank you!
 

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Who are they as a hetrosexual male I find this kind of altitude extremely
patronising they are this ... they are that.. sorry but it makes me really cross

You need to tuck your feelings back on your sleeve. Heterosexual males who post penis/nude photos are most likely excited to receive positive comments from the females on here. There are numerous "Ladies only" titles in posts for commentary and camming.

I also get tired of women being called Sluts in amateur porn even, "My Slut Wife" etc. That doesnt classify me, but i dont go around acting personally offended by it to those who title them as such.

I have a feeling if you posted nude pictures of yourself you'd probably have an interest in what the females think about you.
 

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I posted this so many times before...It's getting boring for me to keep saying it...but here goes. There is nothing about me that is gay...I just prefer to sleep with men!
BTW Nice post...Thank you!

Nice photos! That's a monster of a PA my friend!
 

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You need to tuck your feelings back on your sleeve.
Thank you for letting me know what i need to do :frown1:
Heterosexual males who post penis/nude photos are most likely excited to receive positive comments from the females on here. There are numerous "Ladies only" titles in posts for commentary and camming.

While it is nice to receive feedback from ladies it is also nice for me to receive feedback from men

I also get tired of women being called Sluts in amateur porn even, "My Slut Wife" etc. That doesnt classify me, but i dont go around acting personally offended by it to those who title them as such.

WTF I suppose that's my fault too

I have a feeling if you posted nude pictures of yourself you'd probably have an interest in what the females think about you.

Maybe you need new glasses?:redface: