Well let me start this off: This is not a gay bashing post what so ever. I happened to see a lot of posts lately from new straight men who are baffled by the percentage of gays and bi's around here. Honestly, some of us live in southern states, off the beaten path where we don't know very many bi's or gays. I was raised with a gay brother and he stuck out like a sore thumb growing up around here. My husbands work offers gay benefits and i've come across more gay men and women since becoming an adult. We never talk about sex related topics (mainly because its not appropriate for the event) and I've always had a wonderful time. I think the influx in these types of posts lately are from people who truly don't have much exposure to those of a different orientation. Since coming to LPSG i've reconsidered my own orientation from 100% straight to 80%. I know it's hard to imagine there are people who don't have a crowd of gay friends and have no problems hearing about their intimate lives. If these people decide to stick around for long they will get used to it or leave. I have no problems reading anything from the gay men about gay sex. If its something i dont have a particular interest in i don't read it- gay or straight. I'm thankful there are gay men here because there does seem to be a reputation of respect that some straight men around here can't figure out. We've had complaints of the ridiculous types of PMs the ladies get and they arent getting them from gay men. I know that 100% straight men want loads of comments from the ladies only or to cam with a woman only. But they shouldnt be offended if a gay man compliments them on their body or cock. After all a compliment is a compliment. Who knows cock better than a gay man anyway? So if you are reading this and feel you are sorely outnumbered because you are a straight man, dont feel that way. If you are a decent person then you have something to contribute. It's not a good idea to stroll around flaming the percentages. You'll soon get used to reading about their lives and admire them for their success in their life. Some of them are the most compassionate, generous and intelligent people you'll ever meet. Some have been married to women and have children and have an aspect on straight topics and a perspective on orientation unlike most. You can't expect to start threads that will put people on the defense. They have had to be on the defense for most of their lives for what they believe in. If you are offended you'll miss out on some really good stuff- and some good compliments as well.