Lpsg is not a fantasy site

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I'm seeing the statement "LPSG is a fantasy site" thrown around a lot lately and I have to say that I wholeheartedly disagree.

Yes, it is some people's "fantasy" to come here and see large penises. However, that doesn't make the entire website a "fantasy site".

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We have plenty of real people here who post real pictures of themselves and have real conversations with other members. There's nothing fantasy about that.

If it was all photoshopped pics, edited videos, and fictitious stories then I would think differently. But again, just because there's some of that type of content here doesn't mean it supersedes the real, genuine members and content.

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People from here also meet in person. They start friendships and relationships. Long lasting ones in fact (I can attest).

Nothing fantasy about that either.

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So, to some people this may be just a "fantasy site" and nothing more. But to me and many others it's a community of real adults who like to converse, share pictures, and have fun.

Let's not downplay LPSG into something that it's not and let's appreciate it for what it is.
 
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For many of us, LPSG is also a "support" site. There aren't many safe places to discuss a taboo topic like penis size without shame or ego involved (or people demanding a measured photo to validate someone's statement). For me, this is very far from a fantasy site...
 

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Maybe what people mean by "fantasy site" is a place where you can feel free to share your fantasies, thoughts, questions, concerns, etc. The anonymity, for a lot of people on here, including myself, allows us to talk about things that we just can't discuss with the people we know in our "real life". Just a thought
 

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In my modest opinion, some members cannot mentally separate fantasy from fact.

I agree that LPSG is a community of simi-like minded people, electronically connected by this site. When I first joined I literally had 2 hours a night blocked off as LPSG time. I lived in the chat room and the regular people there were extended friends of mine. I knew more about their health and lives than I did my own real neighbors . But it was a real connection with real people, who provided a laugh when I often needed one most. May of those regulars have now gone away or only on rare occasions actually Video chat

Other parts of the site have become, what I have coined to phrase Pinterest for Porn. So much of what is posted is just random photos and GIFS people see on the internet and then repost here. When someone joins and that have 50 professional quality photos, not selfies as soon as they arrive, I kind of raise an eyebrow. I will not go into the possible photo shopping and the claims of yes this is me

I know the Rob E and the Mods, added a separate place to post Misc photos away from ones gallery. I really have not checked to see if it is being used.

Possibly I have just grown old, or grown up, who knows. What ever LPSGs future, I wish it well

RO.
 
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In my modest opinion, some members cannot mentally separate fantasy from fact.

I agree that LPSG is a community of simi-like minded people, electronically connected by this site. When I first joined I literally had 2 hours a night blocked off as LPSG time. I lived in the chat room and the regular people there were extended friends of mine. I knew more about their health and lives than I did my own real neighbors . But it was a real connection with real people, who provided a laugh when I often needed one most. May of those regulars have now gone away or only on rare occasions actually Video chat

Other parts of the site have become, what I have coined to phrase Pinterest for Porn. So much of what is posted is just random photos and GIFS people see on the internet and then repost here. When someone joins and that have 50 professional quality photos, not selfies as soon as they arrive, I kind of raise an eyebrow. I will not go into the possible photo shopping and the claims of yes this is me

I know the Rob E and the Mods, added a separate place to post Misc photos away from ones gallery. I really have not checked to see if it is being used.

Possibly I have just grown old, or grown up, who knows. What ever LPSGs future, I wish it well

RO.


I agree completely. I believe that there are more strictly hetero guys who come here now out of curiosity. In the past the people who communicated on LPSG were more interested in getting to know each other and understanding each others' experiences. They also weren't so rigidly defined sexually. Maybe this just reflects how life is now in a more global society. It seems to me that people have less time for one another so any sort of fantasy is more real than actual experience. Corporate media controls ideas, products, and communication to fit its priorities.
 

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In my modest opinion, some members cannot mentally separate fantasy from fact.

I agree that LPSG is a community of simi-like minded people, electronically connected by this site. When I first joined I literally had 2 hours a night blocked off as LPSG time. I lived in the chat room and the regular people there were extended friends of mine. I knew more about their health and lives than I did my own real neighbors . But it was a real connection with real people, who provided a laugh when I often needed one most. May of those regulars have now gone away or only on rare occasions actually Video chat

Other parts of the site have become, what I have coined to phrase Pinterest for Porn. So much of what is posted is just random photos and GIFS people see on the internet and then repost here. When someone joins and that have 50 professional quality photos, not selfies as soon as they arrive, I kind of raise an eyebrow. I will not go into the possible photo shopping and the claims of yes this is me

I know the Rob E and the Mods, added a separate place to post Misc photos away from ones gallery. I really have not checked to see if it is being used.

Possibly I have just grown old, or grown up, who knows. What ever LPSGs future, I wish it well

RO.
My Gosh, a FLOOD of memories just flashed through my mind!! :D

That ranks as one of the best times in my life. I met so many awesome people, yourself definitely included! :) Some have become personal friends that we have actually met outside of LPSG, and some I still hope to. Camming was absolutely essential and so much fun. Yes, there was nudity in both a sexual and fun way, but it also served to build friendships and comraderie. It was nothing to see someone's cam on while they were in the kitchen cooking dinner, or at their desk doing college homework, lol.

I will never forget the night that several of us stayed on cam from the evening, to well into the morning (7am East Coast), and at the same time, we were all on our phones on a conference call. Sounds goofy, but I don't know if I've ever laughed so much and so hard in my life!!

That was also in the very early stages of my relationship with AlphaMale, and it felt like we were actually together even though we were on opposite coasts. The chatroom is definitely not the same, and I miss it :(

btw @ronin001 , you are one that I would be honored to get to meet :)
 
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Speaking as another person who met their significant other through LPSG, the site hasn't been and continues to not be a fantasy. I've started talking to some genuinely fantastic people on this site, including ronin who has done a very good deed for me in the past.

My only complaint about some who do treat this site as a fantasy (nor is it exclusive to LPSG by any means), is that -some- who think of it as such....... aren't always prone to treating individuals on here like they are real people. They're just someone to be their fantasy.
 

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Speaking as another person who met their significant other through LPSG, the site hasn't been and continues to not be a fantasy. I've started talking to some genuinely fantastic people on this site, including ronin who has done a very good deed for me in the past.

My only complaint about some who do treat this site as a fantasy (nor is it exclusive to LPSG by any means), is that -some- who think of it as such....... aren't always prone to treating individuals on here like they are real people. They're just someone to be their fantasy.


That's a great point and it also pertains to another recent Thread, about how people should respond to every PM to be polite. There are so many people that just get turned on by somebody's photos and PM them, not really interested in a real conversation, they just see them as a means to get off, and just want you to respond in the way that they want, just for J/O fodder.

I suppose the Internet itself, with the anonymity, is a place for people to fantasize, pretend they are someone else. I find Catfishing to be a fascinating Internet phenomenon, it's terrible for the people being lied to, but the psychology of it is interesting. It's so easy to tweak details, to be that version of yourself that you want to be, and people just get sucked in until they are just playing out this elaborate fantasy lie, going so far as to get in relationships with people for years. And the lies just get more and more outlandish, creating multiple characters, playing out and steering this entire narrative.
 
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In my modest opinion, some members cannot mentally separate fantasy from fact.

I agree that LPSG is a community of simi-like minded people, electronically connected by this site. When I first joined I literally had 2 hours a night blocked off as LPSG time. I lived in the chat room and the regular people there were extended friends of mine. I knew more about their health and lives than I did my own real neighbors . But it was a real connection with real people, who provided a laugh when I often needed one most. May of those regulars have now gone away or only on rare occasions actually Video chat

Other parts of the site have become, what I have coined to phrase Pinterest for Porn. So much of what is posted is just random photos and GIFS people see on the internet and then repost here. When someone joins and that have 50 professional quality photos, not selfies as soon as they arrive, I kind of raise an eyebrow. I will not go into the possible photo shopping and the claims of yes this is me

I know the Rob E and the Mods, added a separate place to post Misc photos away from ones gallery. I really have not checked to see if it is being used.

Possibly I have just grown old, or grown up, who knows. What ever LPSGs future, I wish it well

RO.
I've have posted ''borrowed'' gifs myself in the PHOTO AND VIDEO SHARING forums. By simply inserting a URL link (similar to a Youtube music video post), here's my post:

https://www.lpsg.com/threads/low-hanging-balls.446705/
 
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I did like it when people seemed more real, posted more pictures of themselves and not just a collection of internet porn. My own pics could never compete with fake pics. :p Although that's not the reason I took them down. I just hating being treated like cam girl, and the lack of support for women around here was kind of astonishing.

Anyway, in general I dislike when people use anonymity as an excuse to be someone else, to be rude or disgusting. LPSG has been a place to explore sexuality and discuss ideas, but I can't be anyone other than who I am. My conversations and relationships here are real, even if occasionally the person I have them with are not. :(
 

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For me LPSG has been incredibly supportive. I've been reading and occassionaly posting here for a couple of years and when I had a really traumatising experience a couple of months ago I felt that this was the only place I could turn to for help. And I was met with a lot of warmth, love, advice and support from great people. To me the S in LPSG is the real heart and strength of this place.
 

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My Gosh, a FLOOD of memories just flashed through my mind!! :D

That ranks as one of the best times in my life. I met so many awesome people, yourself definitely included! :) Some have become personal friends that we have actually met outside of LPSG, and some I still hope to. Camming was absolutely essential and so much fun. Yes, there was nudity in both a sexual and fun way, but it also served to build friendships and comraderie. It was nothing to see someone's cam on while they were in the kitchen cooking dinner, or at their desk doing college homework, lol.

I will never forget the night that several of us stayed on cam from the evening, to well into the morning (7am East Coast), and at the same time, we were all on our phones on a conference call. Sounds goofy, but I don't know if I've ever laughed so much and so hard in my life!!

That was also in the very early stages of my relationship with AlphaMale, and it felt like we were actually together even though we were on opposite coasts. The chatroom is definitely not the same, and I miss it :(

btw @ronin001 , you are one that I would be honored to get to meet :)

They were good times indeed. I remember many nights staying up wayyyyy too late, knowing I had to go to work in a few hours because there was just so much fun going on. I definitely remember you and Alpha and a list of other great people, whose names I am just too lazy to type out.

The honor would be mine as well

 
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Not a senior member here, but a real person, with a real personality. There is definitely a "click" here in my opinion. Not One of the old time chat people, but still a nice guy and looking for the same thing you all had. Pics are fun to post and when they are real, the comments are nice, sometimes they just look ridiculous and we can laugh them off. For me LPSG is somewhere we can chat, show off, make friends, have great conversation and relationships. I personally did not come here for the fantasy per say, I come here for the interactions with others. Thanks for having me and say hello every now and again. Not all of the new members are catfish lol. Have a great day all.
 

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lpsg with some great members here really supported ME on accepting my size and body for what it is. I learned not to envy but to enjoy the hung guys and the chats with them about size, sex and life. I have grown to know that everybody is unique no matter what the differences may be and now i am at such a state of peace. I'm frequently having tons of fun showing off here on cam and i keep cumming back again and again... it's a fun and sexy confidence boost! a great place to be, thank you lpsg!
 

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Is that what you guys mean when you say "Fantasy Site"? People lying about themselves, just looking to get their rocks off.

A "fantasy site" would be one where you never talk about any of the members like they are real people. They'd just be objects to gawk instead of real people.

You'd also only discuss things like, "OMG he was 13"+ inches!", share photoshopped pics & videos all day long, and every other story would be about how you went to the supermarket for some milk and ended up having an orgy with everyone there and all the guys were massively hung. ;)