Hello HUNG4BOTH,
You are living an interesting lifestyle, one that intrigues me for certain.
Can you offer some tips for me, and others, please. I have a guy for whom I have some regular playdates. I do like him (as a trusted friend I am still gettin' to know, and feel amazingly comfortable with him), trust him completely,, feel great when we are together. I think we have a special thing happening sexually....
He is helping me explore my sexuality in my 40s. This now comes at a time when I am going through a divorce, also after a very unsatisfied marriage.
I know my new playdate partner and I are both very interested in pleasing each other. I'd like to find out more about "play parties," is that something akin to "sex parties?". I have heard of these type of parties, and want to experience, just go and see what happens. I am not certain this is a turn-on for all men, or even this "play" buddy, however he is very much interested in getting me turned on, whatever that might be with some hesitations. I am still exploring his desires, wants, needs etc. and I am not sure he really is all together comfortable with the idea of sex parties, citing "low body image" as a reason.
I would like some input into how to get him
interested along with me, plus how to go about finding a "sex party" near my home in So. Cal. Desert, Palm Springs area. These parties must exist in every corner of American society?
Any ideas, advice, suggestions, much appreciated! I know he would love for me to bring another wmam for a 3-some, since he has apparently never done that, not surprising really. -- how many men really get that opportunity. So knowing that, I suspect be may, just may be enticed by me to visit a sex party, and right now I feel I can go along with him, be safe, have fun, you know.
FlowerChick
If that was to me..
My wife and I have been a "play couple" (swingers) for about 6 years now.
We have done just about everything possible in that time frame with other singles and couples, or many singles and many couples :wink:
So my wife has watched, helped, joined & photo'd me having sex with other women plenty of times.. either her friends, my friend's wives and girlfriends (with their mates knowledge of course) or just single girls that float in and out of the lifestyle.
We're a 'been there done that couple' but we like what we like, we do what we do, and as long as we're BOTH having fun and nobody gets hurt (unless from a large penis) we will continue.