LPSG member pics vs. Girlfriend

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Thanks everyone for all your help. After reading everyone's replies so far I agree with hilaire. I agree that it's unhealthy not to have a small private psychological space in which you continue to explore aspects of your emotions, sexuality, personality or whatever, alone and without sharing your discoveries with anyone else. I mean it's not like I am doing the Tiger Woods and bangin 18 girls behind my GF's back. I showed some people on the internet my dick because Im intrigued by people's reactions to it, potentially I could always do much worse than that. Also, maybe it is a good thing that I have showed girl's my dick because when they are interested in me, I have no interest in them. I often feel like they don't compare to my GF which has shown me my true thoughts of her how much l truly care about her.
 

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According to some in another thread, if you don't tell her, you're lying and cheating. I don't happen to think that but that's just me but if I was your gf...I'd want to know.
 

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My husband knows about this site. I talk about it all the time.
I even tried to convince him to get a profile here, but he wasn't interested.

But simply having a profile here or having photos of your dick is just a photo of your dick. It's your body, your dick, and if you want to show it off, you may.

Although, how would you feel if she had pic of herself on the internet?

Personally, cheating involves at least an email or phone call, not a glance at your photos. Secondly, you can make friends and not expect anything to happen. Take the taboo out of sex. Make your own decisions for your own body/mind.
 

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If this is strictly about getting reactions to your body, how is this site any different than going to a nude beach (ok, the nude beaches I go to) or being naked in the locker room?

If there is some sexual gratification in the admiration and you feel she has a monopoly on your sexual gratification, then you should probably talk with her about posting your pictures.
 

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In response to what's been mentioned, I think rather than just asking whether she would dump you, you're better off first thinking about whether you think she'd be justified in dumping you. If the answer's 'yes', then stop, but if it's no, and even if you think she would dump you if she found out, then carrying on with it isn't doing any harm if you feel you can keep it entirely to yourself. As hilaire says, we've all got secrets. Nothing wrong with that.
 

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If you can't share it with her/tell her about it, you shouldn't be doing it

That's pretty much it.

If you really "love her very much" the last thing you would want to do is keep secrets from her - especially something relatively trivial. Yes, I know some women might be offended, some might encourage it, but still, if you love each other so much, I am sure there must be some level of understanding?
 

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In response to what's been mentioned, I think rather than just asking whether she would dump you, you're better off first thinking about whether you think she'd be justified in dumping you. If the answer's 'yes', then stop, but if it's no, and even if you think she would dump you if she found out, then carrying on with it isn't doing any harm if you feel you can keep it entirely to yourself. As hilaire says, we've all got secrets. Nothing wrong with that.
i disagree.
if she finds out she either will or won't.
him thinking it justified won't matter one iota.

he might think it's worth risking losing her in order to express himself. he might not... in which case he'll wish he'd refrained.
 

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Well the key bit from what I was saying about that scenario, is the likelihood of being discovered. I think it'd be foolish behaviour if you valued the relationship to carry on unless you were all but certain she'd never know, sure, but my point is you don't have to make a compromise unless it's needed.
 

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Well I'm done showing girls on web cams for sure and I learned from my mistakes, but I'm still going to remain a member on this site because just like someone previously mentioned, this is just like an Internet nude beach ...
 

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Well i haven't mentioned to my GF I have an LPSG account. She doesn't need to know.
I don't go chatting up men/women on here and i don't even think about looking at galleries.

To the OP I think chatroulette is a step too far tbh, even perving on people here I would say is disrespectful.