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Since I announced that I was leaving LPSG after almost 10 years I've been contacted by several members asking me to explain the reason for my decision.
I've always had a huge amount of fun on this site and I've met some truly wonderful people here, some of whom have become longstanding friends. One of the things I valued most about the place was the mutual respect that members showed to each other. There has always been very healthy banter amongst members, and differences of opinion, but generally it was lighthearted and good-humoured.
Lately there's been a change in that atmosphere. Some members are abusive to the point of causing great offence and great hurt to fellow members. Intolerance, bigotry, personal abuse and persecution have been masquerading as freedom of speech. Don't get me wrong, there have always been people that behaved that way, but it was made very clear to them that they were not the standards of behaviour that were expected from members here, or they were booted out immediately.
The thing that's changed recently is that those elements are being allowed to get away with their behaviour, and that has encouraged others to behave in the same way. That has ruined the site for me, especially when I recently became the target of the abuse from a small clique of members, just for daring to have a different opinion to them.
When I visit this site I come for enjoyment, a laugh, some relaxation, some friendly chat and banter with others, somewhere to get away from the stresses of the real world. What I've been getting lately is abuse and vicious comments about myself and other people. I found that I was getting afraid to log on because I didn't know what outrage I was going to read. For day after day I was just leaving here feeling upset, and no website is worth that. I have plenty of other places I can go and actually have fun.
I was very sad to leave, it wasn't an easy decision after 10 years, but until the owner and the moderators take a stand then I can't see myself coming back anytime soon. I'd like to leave thinking that I made a positive contribution to the site during my time as a member here, maybe others need to reflect on their contribution.
cheers
Dillon
I've always had a huge amount of fun on this site and I've met some truly wonderful people here, some of whom have become longstanding friends. One of the things I valued most about the place was the mutual respect that members showed to each other. There has always been very healthy banter amongst members, and differences of opinion, but generally it was lighthearted and good-humoured.
Lately there's been a change in that atmosphere. Some members are abusive to the point of causing great offence and great hurt to fellow members. Intolerance, bigotry, personal abuse and persecution have been masquerading as freedom of speech. Don't get me wrong, there have always been people that behaved that way, but it was made very clear to them that they were not the standards of behaviour that were expected from members here, or they were booted out immediately.
The thing that's changed recently is that those elements are being allowed to get away with their behaviour, and that has encouraged others to behave in the same way. That has ruined the site for me, especially when I recently became the target of the abuse from a small clique of members, just for daring to have a different opinion to them.
When I visit this site I come for enjoyment, a laugh, some relaxation, some friendly chat and banter with others, somewhere to get away from the stresses of the real world. What I've been getting lately is abuse and vicious comments about myself and other people. I found that I was getting afraid to log on because I didn't know what outrage I was going to read. For day after day I was just leaving here feeling upset, and no website is worth that. I have plenty of other places I can go and actually have fun.
I was very sad to leave, it wasn't an easy decision after 10 years, but until the owner and the moderators take a stand then I can't see myself coming back anytime soon. I'd like to leave thinking that I made a positive contribution to the site during my time as a member here, maybe others need to reflect on their contribution.
cheers
Dillon