This forum isn't perfect, of course. Misunderstandings happen. Sometimes this forum is used solely as a place for sexual pick-ups. And, of course, the owners of this forum most likely only have one thing on their mind: $$$ So, I'm not naive and overly idealistic. But I have to say.... Lately, I am loving this forum. A while ago I read someone referred to this forum as, "The world's biggest locker room." Lately, I'm really seeing this. One thing about the Internet is that it allows people to be anonymous. I think this allows people to ask questions and share perpectives that they wouldn't otherwise share. I mean, on this forum you have straight guys accepting compliments from gay guys; in the "real world" this may result in violence. On this forum, you have straight guys complimenting other guys' packages. Granted, as some have pointed out, the term "straight" is sometimes used with a bit of fluidity on this forum. (I remember one member saying that there are straight guys and then "straight" guys.) But the fact remains that odds are that at least some of the self-proclaimed straight guys on this forum are indeed straight and, because of the anonymity of the Internet, they can on this forum share perspectives and experiences, ask questions, enjoy and share compliments, that they wouldn't otherwise be able to in the "real world." So, this forum is great because it's sort of a pansexual locker room.