Lube = failure as a man?

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  1. _avg_

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    Is the use of lube an indictment on a man's ability to arouse/stimulate his partner?




    (Obviously, this is more directed at the women in the group...)
     
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    I'm female & I don't think lube makes anyone a failure...
    especially if you're a larger man... it really helps to have a little extra slippage... XD
    I know I've always appreciated it...
    I think its also better then spit because some people are turned off by that..
    so I give lube a thumbs up for anyone in general... =)
     
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    Just as many men do not produce much lube, many women do not either, no matter what.
     
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    I'll remember this the next time I fuck you in the ass.
     
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    or when I get to f*ck you in the ass... :biggrin1:
     
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    *quietly chuckles at the comment*

    In regards to the OP, there are people in this world who don't produce a ton of natural lubricant. There is nothing wrong with that. Personally, I think a little lube goes a long way and works quite well.
     
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    No. Condoms tend to increase dryness. Lubes can be fun!!
     
  8. rob_just_rob

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    Promises, promises...

    By the way, you can say "fuck" without the *, we're all cool with that.
     
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    *blows a kiss*

    I can promise you that party in your butthole...

    I just can't promise the reach around... XD

    the * is just out of habit... seems not to bother too many people... XD
     
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    I'll bring the lube. Not that I think you've failed as a man or anything...


    ... :rolleyes:
     
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    Hell no! Where on earth did you get that retarded idea?! :mad::eek: As mentioned many condoms make the vaginal canal dry even though they may have an external lubricant as well. In the past I found that some medications such as prescription allergy decongestants don't just dry up my nasal passages. They dry up everything! :frown1::mad::redface: As a result AstroGlide and baby oil are ALWAYS in my nightstand. :cool:
     
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    I did fail as a man because I have a vagina... XD
    my penis is silicon though... and blue... I call it Dr. ManHandler... XD
     
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    Is that it in your avatar? :eek:

    So long as you don't call it Dr. Phil, Dr. Strangelove, or Dr. Rock, we're good.
     
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    hahaha... you can only wish... XD

    Dr. Phil... LOL...

    What if it was Dr. Ruth & little wrinkly... would you still be okay?? XD
     
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    If it's little, we can revisit the lube question.

    If it's little AND wrinkly... wouldn't that constitute dildo fail? I thought dildos were supposed to replace little wrinkly things.
     
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    but Dr. Ruth is a little wrinkly thing... XD

    dildo failure... sounds like something that causes plane crashes... or Fords to burst into flames... X

    Tonight a horrible turn of events... leaving a woman emotionally scarred and unable to leave her house... what could do such a thing?? story at 11... XD
     
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    Condoms without lube, whether for vaginal or (most especially) for anal is a recipe for disaster, macho posturing aside.
     
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    Lube is your friend.
     
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    We are in the age of endless lube commercials and zillions of lubes on the shelf at your local walmart or grocery store. This should tell you how far we've come as a society that accepts sometimes women can't produce adequate lubricant on her own, or changing positions can make for a dry dick, or the fact anal sex needs some lubricant.

    It's common sense this is totally ok, or else women wouldnt be having 20 different kinds of water based lube and silicone lubes at our disposal at the local Target store. It's just as silly to presume needing lube means you are a failure as a female.

    For many of us, lubricant makes sex possible and less painful. It's a goooood thing.
     
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    No lube = No sex in my house , I do not want to go back to the days when we were young and thought lube was unneeded I can still remember that itching feeling I had from the tiny tears in my skin . Sure it's all fun and games until she says honey I still haven't healed from the last time .. Lube is our friend and don't forget .
     
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