Lube...how often do you use it?

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  1. DoctorZZZ

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    My gf and I use lube. I never hear a lot of talk about it from straight couples. I guess we mainly use it because we usually use a condom. We've never used lube without one. But recently, since my gf started BC, she doesn't 'stay' wet. She is still the same from before, in the beggining, it just doesn't stay. Which has been the only side effect we've noticed so far. We do go for a long time, I'd say an hour on average. But sometimes shorter, sometimes longer.

    I'm just curious to how often, you women, need or want to use lube. Mostly I'm curious about during, how often do you reach for some.

    And no, I'm not too big for her, just above average, although she is very tight and it does take a while to work it in. But this thread is not asking "Do you need lube because a dick is too BIG."
     
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    i would say 98 times out of a 100 we use lube no matter how wet i get. i found this generic KY at the grocery store and its the best. We've tried every type from the adult stores- water based and silicone and nothing beats it.

    i am so thankful we have such great lubes to choose from in this day and age.
     
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    I'd guess around 75% of the time we do...like MR says, no matter how wet she gets, it's just more comfortable for the both of us.
     
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    thanks, thats what I expected.

    we use the generic ky jelly stuff to. By far the best we've used.
     
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    i use lube everytime i have sex with my girlfriend, not for anal sex, just vaginal..
    its silicon based, very good stuff
     
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    No lube for anal :eek: Oucch!
     
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    1% of the time. He used it for the first time last night, while trying to fist me.
     
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    i use lube a lot of the time (probably about 80%), whether with a partner or alone.

    i love the slippery feel it gives, and the way everything glides around much more smoothly, especially on and around my clit!
     
  11. D_upuuo

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    i spit shine that a-hole ;)
    joking, i mean i dont have anal sex, so, if i were to have anal sex, then yes ofcourse id use lube (unless she didnt want it, but i could only assume she would)
     
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    we use lube about 50% of the time. it's mostly for handjobs or the times i dry up. like you and your gf, we use condoms too. after a while the wetness starts to go away and it's easier to use lube to heat things back up again. we've tried KY and while it works, it tastes like shit. i like flavored lubes since they're fun to play with. but my fave lube is the silicone-based pjur eros brand.
     
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    Never...dont need it. ;-)
     
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    Have to all the time now with Trogan condoms, the lube on them is not enough.
     
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    We use lube a lot of the time. I am a small girl, and he is not small, we wouldn't be able to have sex as often as we do if it wasn't for lube. The few times we have tried anal we used TONS of lube, but still he has never got it all the way in. In porn, small women can take big dicks all the way in her ass. It is just a bit much for me :(
     
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    I just bought some Wet Platinum and Wet Strawberry. We are just trying stuff.

    I heard silicon stuff stays slick for a long time. Thats why I picked Wet Platinum. I'll let you know how it turns out.
     
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    I prefer pre-cum or saliva but failing that I'll use Wet Stuff "GOLD" with vitamin E.
     
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    I never have.
     
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    hubby is quite large but we have never had to use any lube. we haven't used any since he has been circumcised either. sex is perfect with out it, know problems of being dry. or dried out for either of us. all is fine with out it.
     
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    Almost always. Just seems to make things easier for her.
     
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