My gf and I use lube. I never hear a lot of talk about it from straight couples. I guess we mainly use it because we usually use a condom. We've never used lube without one. But recently, since my gf started BC, she doesn't 'stay' wet. She is still the same from before, in the beggining, it just doesn't stay. Which has been the only side effect we've noticed so far. We do go for a long time, I'd say an hour on average. But sometimes shorter, sometimes longer. I'm just curious to how often, you women, need or want to use lube. Mostly I'm curious about during, how often do you reach for some. And no, I'm not too big for her, just above average, although she is very tight and it does take a while to work it in. But this thread is not asking "Do you need lube because a dick is too BIG."