judy angel: Some of you helpful folks recommended plenty of lube. Yes we do do that..... For those of you who dont know My husband and i use liquid silk, from passion.com It is sublime. And I mean totally sublime.... Want to treat your partner? This is it! For a gift, what ever Perfect anniversary present. Trouble is its £15 per skoosh bottle Anyone know something that's good that doesnt cost the earth? Website or tel no to order if poss... Thanks!