I think the worst part is, he was sleeping with multiple girls at the same time, while each girl believed she was the only one he was seeing. Some nights he would leave one girl and head over to another one... He even said he was with certain members as a cover, while he was actually with a girl.
And the sex was always unprotected.
All allegedly.
But his CBAR closed, and that's pointing to it being real! For those of you that don't know what a cbar is: In China, the bar is like the main organization to support an artist. They fund artist promotional pieces, like birthday billboards, donations under the artists name. They also pay for the designer clothes they wear, etc etc etc. They're in direct contact with management, they have the in on most things regarding their chosen artist. (They're basically fan led sponsors).
When a bar closes, you know an idol has fucked up beyond repair. Them closing was the first sign all of this is true and that more is to come, because China is pretty relaxed when it comes to idols dating.
Also, SM cancelling his subunit debut, hours before it was meant to drop is also very telling. According to posts on official Chinese media, the music video, song and all pre recorded music show appearances have been scrapped. This happened about 2 hours before they were meant to air.
I just feel bad for Hendery.