Lucky to have a big dick?

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And would you still call someone lucky if they were homeless, had no family and were ill if they had 12 inches?

Everyone has their good points and their bad points. Although I may have a big dick I'm actually "unlucky" in most every other aspect of life :redface:

I guess they'd be luckier than a homeless person with 3".

I'm unlucky at other aspects of life too, and I don't even have the big dick.
I often wonder what "good points" I have...
 

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But should you be thinking about your big dick? How much is thinking too much? I just accept it as an ordinary part of me like my feet. Does anyone think they're lucky to have feet?

That's not a very good analogy. Society doesn't view men with large feet as sexually desirable, nor do they give you any advantages in bed.

A better one might be height. Sure, it's not the be-all end-all, but few would deny that it's a desirable advantage to be taller than average, even if being tall does have occasional minor disadvantages.

Maybe I'd think differently if I had a different cock...but I'd like to think who I am is separate from how many inches my cock is and that I'd still be the same person with 5, 6 or 12 inches.

I'd wager you almost certainly would think differently. Like it or not, our physical attributes play a part in determining who we are as people. Would Heidi Klum be the same exact person if she weren't stunningly beautiful? Of course not.

I think people should stop worrying about their willies so much.

I hope you don't take offense at this, but that's really easy for you to say. It's like a tall guy saying, "People shouldn't worry about their height" or a rich guy saying "Money isn't everything." Of course it's not a big concern to you because you have no reason to be concerned. For those without your attributes, it's understandable that they worry, or at least that they think about it.
 

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WHOPPER-LEE had some points about being too large. I think he has some things to say that were more important to him (and seeing his photos) that fewer people experience.

On some board or other, I had expressed a view about women who had large breasts. It's good they attract attention. It's bad if they hurt the back and she needs a wheelbarrow.

A size is good that it helps communicate your assets of desireability to your wife/man. Not good if it means constant concerns of not ever being able to do it normally.

I got a good size. Others have concerns about ever 'fitting in', and not being viewed as a circus freak.
 

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i take it for granted..i just have a real high sex drive regardless of the size.i was always sexed-up before i was given the "he's big" title.
i guess it's no big deal to me cause i see it everyday.but i only think size is important unless your 2 inches or doing porno.
besides i know so many "small" guys that get so much action.so go figure.
 

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I find it distracting to be honest. I'm primarily a bottom and many times when I've hooked up, the guy becomes self-conscious because he's smaller than me. Or better yet, they suddenly become a bottom when I take my pants off.

I frequently suffer from performance anxiety when I'm expected to top and when I'm wearing a condom, I can't feel a damn thing...so my dick pretty much becomes useless.

So do I feel lucky? Nope, not at all.
 

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But should you be thinking about your big dick? How much is thinking too much? I just accept it as an ordinary part of me like my feet. Does anyone think they're lucky to have feet?

Maybe I'd think differently if I had a different cock...but I'd like to think who I am is separate from how many inches my cock is and that I'd still be the same person with 5, 6 or 12 inches.

I think people should stop worrying about their willies so much.

Yeah I agree with this, when I first joined this site, I was more naive than I am now, I gave the penis a lot more credit than it deserves.

it's just another part of the body, like SLB said, I wouldn't be me without it so I guess I don't class myself as lucky.

I just find it hilarious that I have something apparently desirable hanging between my legs. I don't think this means it is 'wasted' on me at all. It just means I'm not going to be a bastard about it and take advantage of my size to get sex.
 

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I just find it hilarious that I have something apparently desirable hanging between my legs. I don't think this means it is 'wasted' on me at all. It just means I'm not going to be a bastard about it and take advantage of my size to get sex.

What's wrong with using what you've got (penis or other things) to get sex?
I thought that's how the "mating game" worked...:confused:
 
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From all the jelqing,pumping and clamping,I've been doing.There was no luck to it. just hard work to get my big dick.
 

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Well I guess I;m the first to speak for the small dicked. I hate it. I won't walk around in the gym with nothing hanging there. When I'm with a woman some positions are hard if not impossible to do.

I guess the one thing is they can take it all the way down without gagging.

Wish I had 2 or 3 more inches. Oh well, not much I can do.

Probably why I'm so good orally. So I got that going for me, which is nice. :)
 

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Do you guys who have really big dicks consider yourselves lucky or even "blessed" to be so well endowed? Or is it just something you take for granted?

When and why are you especially glad to have a big dick?

On the other hand, do you guys who are really small consider yourselves at a definite disadvantage to be so small?

I'd appreciate your honest and direct repsonses! Thanks! :smile:

To tell the truth I never thought much about my penis until my very late teens thus I never used it prior to this year actually, and I guess I can't be upset that it amazed my gf but other than that it can be annoying.

Neither blessing nor curse for it's nice to have to please others but when considered in a standalone light it can be frustrating, especially in public but awakening to hard-on which is a good sign of health is also a great matter of aggrivation for me on some days.

To tell the truth I figure I'm good; too big is just as bad as too small, and I am neither, but I never was, and I really cannot be; I am myself and I have my own penis and that is all...

I'm sure others think much more on the subject; I tended to do so for years, and my view shifted to a neutral stance. Sorry if that disappoints.
 

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Just the other day I saw a show on about lottery winners. Of course, I couldnt help but think, "I wish I could win the lottery."

At second thought, I feel like I already have, and feel lucky every day. I know things could have just as easily gone the other way, so I do my best not to take things for granted or judge others who arent as lucky.

Please note that I am not just talking about penis size, but rather life in general.