I’m not sure if this message will reach its intended audience, but I don’t know where better to post it. Perhaps those checking out the site are likely to read some of the threads in the introduction forum.
To those thinking about joining the site and/or introducing themselves here: As this thread title indicates, I lurked on the site a long time before I became active on the site. While I enjoyed the lurking, the positive feedback since posting has made the site even better for me. Most beneficial have been the “cock talk” I’ve been able to engage in privately; as a consequence, I’ve been able to have conversations that I’ve wanted to have for years. I encourage you to join, introduce yourself, and post.