I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He’s my first ever long term relationship. I met him at a time when my heart was broken by my first love and I was vulnerable and very emotionally broken. In the beginning it was the usual honeymoon stage where we just couldn’t get enough of each other and I couldn’t wait to see him again at the end of the day.
Over time however, I started feeling different. I was deeply closeted for many many years and denied myself any kind of sexual experience with men for a long time. I jumped into this relationship hard and fast as that’s what I thought I wanted at the time, and was trying to fill the hole in my heart that was left after my first breakup. Now however, I’m starting to yearn…
I think about other men a lot. Like a lot... I see a man I’m attracted to and I just want to know what he smells like, what he tastes like. I want to know what his dick looks like. What it would be like to feel a different man inside me than the same one I’ve had for the last 4 years. My curiosity is getting the better of me.
Last night I started chatting with this guy on Twitter. I don’t even know who he is, he’s just a random dude I connected with years ago over a tv show we both liked. We randomly started DM’ing, talking about the certain men on the new season of this show and how attractive they are. One thing led to another and things got steamy. We started bantering back and forth about being with each other, what we would do with each other sexually etc. I guess it might be considered sexting? Not even sure why it went there. I guess we were just horny. We never took it further than just words. No pics or videos were exchanged, and no orgasms were had (not by me at least). But it was like a blazing fire ignited in me. That excitement of talking to someone new. Being naughty and saying things I honestly can’t even imagine saying to my boyfriend. This insane euphoria came over me that I haven’t felt in a long long time which lasted for hours after. It was wild and I wanted more. And I’m not sure what to take from this.
I would never act on any of these feelings in real life. I lost my virginity to a guy at 32, so I know a thing or two about abstaining. I just don’t know how or even if I should have a conversation with my boyfriend about what I’ve been feeling. I don’t see any outcome that would benefit either of us. We’ve been a bit rocky the last little bit for reasons I won’t get into now, but we continue on. He’s my best friend. And I do love him. I can push these feelings down and just continue on with how things are now. But for how long? I’ve tried to spice things up in the past. Role playing, toys, different positions, different locations other than our bedrooms. But the yearning continues to persist.
Anyway, tl;dr. I’m not even sure what I’m looking to get out of this post. Feel free to provide insight.
Over time however, I started feeling different. I was deeply closeted for many many years and denied myself any kind of sexual experience with men for a long time. I jumped into this relationship hard and fast as that’s what I thought I wanted at the time, and was trying to fill the hole in my heart that was left after my first breakup. Now however, I’m starting to yearn…
I think about other men a lot. Like a lot... I see a man I’m attracted to and I just want to know what he smells like, what he tastes like. I want to know what his dick looks like. What it would be like to feel a different man inside me than the same one I’ve had for the last 4 years. My curiosity is getting the better of me.
Last night I started chatting with this guy on Twitter. I don’t even know who he is, he’s just a random dude I connected with years ago over a tv show we both liked. We randomly started DM’ing, talking about the certain men on the new season of this show and how attractive they are. One thing led to another and things got steamy. We started bantering back and forth about being with each other, what we would do with each other sexually etc. I guess it might be considered sexting? Not even sure why it went there. I guess we were just horny. We never took it further than just words. No pics or videos were exchanged, and no orgasms were had (not by me at least). But it was like a blazing fire ignited in me. That excitement of talking to someone new. Being naughty and saying things I honestly can’t even imagine saying to my boyfriend. This insane euphoria came over me that I haven’t felt in a long long time which lasted for hours after. It was wild and I wanted more. And I’m not sure what to take from this.
I would never act on any of these feelings in real life. I lost my virginity to a guy at 32, so I know a thing or two about abstaining. I just don’t know how or even if I should have a conversation with my boyfriend about what I’ve been feeling. I don’t see any outcome that would benefit either of us. We’ve been a bit rocky the last little bit for reasons I won’t get into now, but we continue on. He’s my best friend. And I do love him. I can push these feelings down and just continue on with how things are now. But for how long? I’ve tried to spice things up in the past. Role playing, toys, different positions, different locations other than our bedrooms. But the yearning continues to persist.
Anyway, tl;dr. I’m not even sure what I’m looking to get out of this post. Feel free to provide insight.