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So I have come to a tough crossroads in my young life.
I have been seeing a guy for the past 6 weeks and have grown to be quite fond of him. He has grown more than fond of me and wants us to start a serious relationship. While I do care for him greatly and feel that I will be able to love him one day, I do not lust after him with a deep passion.
On the other hand, since my previous break-up 8 months ago, I have been enjoying meaningless sex with people. I see a hot guy and immediately get horny. But as soon as we have sex, I have no more interest in that person.
The ultimate goal in life should be to find the person that has an equal balance of lust and love. But what should I look for at the current moment? By sticking with random sex (while staying safe), I am more likely to find that person. But I feel like I would be happier in the short term by finding someone I can love.
What is the happy medium?
I have been seeing a guy for the past 6 weeks and have grown to be quite fond of him. He has grown more than fond of me and wants us to start a serious relationship. While I do care for him greatly and feel that I will be able to love him one day, I do not lust after him with a deep passion.
On the other hand, since my previous break-up 8 months ago, I have been enjoying meaningless sex with people. I see a hot guy and immediately get horny. But as soon as we have sex, I have no more interest in that person.
The ultimate goal in life should be to find the person that has an equal balance of lust and love. But what should I look for at the current moment? By sticking with random sex (while staying safe), I am more likely to find that person. But I feel like I would be happier in the short term by finding someone I can love.
What is the happy medium?