Lusting when you're in love...

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A few months after Russell Crowe got married, he was at a rugby game and looked at a woman a few seconds longer than others.....and people jumped in his shit over just looking.
He quipped, "I'm married....I'm not dead."

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I'm married and I lust after you every day.

Stop trying to get in my pants you bad, bad boy. :tongue:

Lust enhances love if you are tuned in correctly.

Lust is normal.

Lust but do not obsess.

Lust is nothing to brag about to your partner.


Married 32 years.

When you say lust enhances love do you mean lust for one another? I always listen very carefully when you speak, please explain?

lust is usually just a chemical thing anyway.

nature's way of saying "hey, see that one there? you two would make healthy babies!!".

turning that into some emotional disloyalty is just daft.

nobody can help that.
cheating is when you act on it.

I had someone else tell me this just the other day dolf! Perhaps the two of you are soul mates :)
 

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When you say lust enhances love do you mean lust for one another? I always listen very carefully when you speak, please explain?

There are many aspects to love and lust:

Being in lust/love, sometimes it's hard to tell the difference.
Lust, kickstarting fantasies and sex with the one you love.
Lusting after a different person can heighten sexual tension during sex, and for me at least, my fantasies end with my wife being my fantasy partner.
Lust brings excitement and sexual awareness that you are still a sexual person, brightens your day and stimulates your gonads, then you can bring it on home.
Whatever blows your skirt up or gets you juicy is all right with me as long as we love each other and you bring your lust home and share it with me.
 

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i suspect they had the same motives for this opinion as i do.

they can't stop looking! heh

Very true! PS - Love the new avatar....does someone take your pics for you, or do you have a self timer thingy? I wish I could take some like that....

There are many aspects to love and lust:

Being in lust/love, sometimes it's hard to tell the difference.
Lust, kickstarting fantasies and sex with the one you love.
Lusting after a different person can heighten sexual tension during sex, and for me at least, my fantasies end with my wife being my fantasy partner.
Lust brings excitement and sexual awareness that you are still a sexual person, brightens your day and stimulates your gonads, then you can bring it on home.
Whatever blows your skirt up or gets you juicy is all right with me as long as we love each other and you bring your lust home and share it with me.

Such wisdom and passion. Your wife is a lucky woman. I think I understand lust now, and I think I know that it is okay, as long as it is used as a positive function in your relationship. Thank you.