lying about sexual partners

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  1. iluv2xlr8

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    Hi, I was wondering, do alot of women lie about the numbers of sexual partners that they've had to their significant others? And if so, why? Thanks.
     
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    Yes.

    We don't count when we go back to ex's, the odd guys in clubs, guys on holiday and pretty much any guy that didn't feel special :p

    If anything happened to me and Lucius, I wouldn't tell my partners the numbers from swinging!
     
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    i don't understand the importance men place on the past.
     
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    Me neither since experienced women are better at all aspects of sex. Tangentially, I've also never understood why guys would call a woman a slut or whore since (a) it's behavior that most guys engage in if they can and (b) really, aren't you just jealous it wasn't you?

    But yeah. I mean, I may not want to hear about some guy doing something *better* than me but numbers/experience if no biggie. Hopefully the experience helps her know what she wants out of sex!
     
  5. Principessa

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    Yes, because experience teaches us that if we don't the man gets all pissy about not having been the first or some other bull shit. :rolleyes: :confused: Straight men are like explorers, they need to be the first to plant their flag in the pussy. If they know too many explorers have been there before them it weirds them out.
     
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    No - I don't lie. If a guy doesn't accept who I am, which includes my past experiences, sexual or otherwise, then he can fuck off.

    I've been lied to by a previous partner about his figures - he exaggerated rather than played it down. Guy had a serious inferiority complex.
     
  7. dolfette

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    i don't lie. i just leave.
    if a guy is moron enough to ask then he's too much of a moron for me.
    it's none of his fucking business who i slept with before we met.

    no, the number is not that high. it's the principle.
     
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    lmao @ plant the flag in the pussy.

    most men really dont care how many partners a woman had in the past unless they like/love the woman they want. me? i prefer an experienced woman over a "wholesome" girl. having my ego stroked doesnt feel as good as having my dick stroked
     
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    I think I'd be lying if I said I wasn't curious, but it doesn't really affect the present whatsoever in my mind. She's with me now, that's the important bit.

    Chasing Amy covers alot of this sort of shit.
     
  10. dolfette

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    oh, and while we're at it!

    no matter how big you are, if you're dumb enough to ask then i'll tell you i've had bigger.

    no matter how good you are, if you're dumb enough to ask then i'll tell you i've had better.

    and then i'll leave.
     
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    cause guys are douchebags and make you feel like shit for sleeping with over like, 5 guys.
    ya.

    that's about it
     
  12. UnofficialGirl

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    i don't have a reason to lie

    like idk guys definitely sleep around and boast about fucking random chicks, so idk i'm now down with this double standard

    so no, i don't lie about it. but no one has asked me in a while...
     
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    And what do you consider 'a reason to lie'?
     
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    If he's braying like a donkey and calling for god while I'm either sucking his dick or fucking him, he's got to know that sort of ability comes with experience.

    Dolfette is right.
    If he experiences all that and is STILL compelled to ask the stupid question, which is really none of his god damned business, then there is no next time for us.

    Guys, this is where you get the chance to haul your brain out of your pants and show a bit of maturity and refrain from asking the question when you know you are NOT going to like the answer to.
     
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    My number isn't high, but I just stopped keeping count simply because it was just not something I thought about. I tend to remember the person or the sex more if it was mind-blowing or the best or unique.
     
  16. TheScotsman

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    That's pretty much the reason I don't get why terrorists are so excited about the promise of 72 virgins for martyrdom. Give me two girls from Dundee who've been around the block a few times and know what they're bloody doing.
     
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    72?? In a row???
     
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    like, feeling ashamed that i've had sex before with other people

    or like trying to fit in with a super religious guy that would judge me for having sex with other people outside of marriage

    that sort of thing
     
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    The only times I've asked that question is when the girl and I were in a serious relationship and it was part of a "get to know more about you" kind of thing. I couldn't care less if she'd done hundreds of guys.. experience can be a very good thing! :-D
     
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    Hey, try not to suck any dick on your way to the parking lot.




    (I hope you were making a Clerks reference, or else that could be interpreted entirely the wrong way.)
     
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