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Straight men are like explorers, they need to be the first to plant their flag in the pussy. If they know too many explorers have been there before them it weirds them out.

When traveling on the well worn path,
it is obvious that others have been there before.
But
If no other flag is flying
I will triumphantly plant my flag
Thrusting my long pole
Deeply into the moist furrow
That beckons me.
:smile:
 

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no, silly, you're taking a really dumb risk by sleeping with a girl unprotected, just because she's had only a few partners.

it only takes one.

What are you talking about? I don't have sex with girls without condoms. Where did I say that I do have unprotected sex?
 

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The question has never come up, but I have been very upfront with him about my past experience. However, I do not care to know the exact number of his "conquests." I know it's extremely high because he told me that he kind of went wild at one point in his life. That and being in a traveling band, well, I'm not stupid.

You better believe he was tested: twice! Seriously, there was no way in hell I would have slept with him without documentation! LOL!
 

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I don't care if a partner enjoyed zero, one, ten, or 100 partners. She can tell me if she wants, or not tell if that suits her.

I don't ask about number of partners, but I do ask about health (i.e. STD status).

FWIW, several women have asked me how many partners I had. I always tell them the honest truth, and then if they ask me, I point out that it is only fair for me to ask them. One woman even hinted that I must have had many simply because of penis size, and began asking about how many women asked me for sex just to try it out for size.
 

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My wife asked me i told her the truth and then she told me, I kinda find it hot sometimes for her to pull out a past expierence story every now and then .
 

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Most men want a woman to be a freak in the sheets or fuck like a talented porno star.

So Okay we do that - do you really think we are virgins????

Or you are the second or third guy?????????? Maybe today - lol

If you are that worried then don't have sex with me, go to a convent and hang out, maybe you'll get lucky.
 

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all the women i've been in relationships with have had lots of sex partners.it never bothered me.they were all open about it.
the only time i've ever asked was with my ex-fiance,because where we lived(where she grew up at as well) she would see guys she had sex with in the past(from high school up untill a few years before we got together)
it was crazy because we would see them every where(grocery store,movies,resturants,ect)i just had to ask.i was good with her having a past(almost everybody has one)but she would get angry at the fact that i had one.
 

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There was a saying, something like, "however many men a woman claims she's had, double it, and however many women a man claims he's had, cut it in half." Or something like that.
 

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What's absurd is if you're implying condoms protect you from everything. And plus, what if my partner wants me to go down on her?
Dental dam. Duh.

I ask and answer questions about safer-sex practices, birth control, and boundaries/preferences. I ask and answe questions such as "How long has it been since your last blood screening, and how many partners have you had since then?" or "Do you ever have any forms of sex without a prophylactic in place?" Asking "How many guys have you been with?" has never seemed like a question motivated by anything other than ego. I won't answer that if asked, because despite the obvious irrelevance, the answer (no matter how small) always seems to make certain people uncomfortable.

I won't lie about it, however.
 

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Dental dam. Duh.

I ask and answer questions about safer-sex practices, birth control, and boundaries/preferences. I ask and answe questions such as "How long has it been since your last blood screening, and how many partners have you had since then?" or "Do you ever have any forms of sex without a prophylactic in place?" Asking "How many guys have you been with?" has never seemed like a question motivated by anything other than ego. I won't answer that if asked, because despite the obvious irrelevance, the answer (no matter how small) always seems to make certain people uncomfortable.

I won't lie about it, however.
^^^the reasonable questions which i would happily answer.

wanting numbers & details is either kink or ego.
 

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Yeah, cause you know those things aren't a mood killer or anything. Duh.
Same is often said about condoms. You're copping out here.

Either you're super-concerned about safety like you claim, and therefore a dam isn't out of the question, or you're just a nosey, ignorant jerk who thinks knowing the answers to boring questions is far more necessary than it is.
 

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Same is often said about condoms. You're copping out here.

Either you're super-concerned about safety like you claim, and therefore a dam isn't out of the question, or you're just a nosey, ignorant jerk who thinks knowing the answers to boring questions is far more necessary than it is.

Aww does someone still have a little sand in their vagina from our last discussion?

Yeah, condoms are real mood killers. Great logic lol.

And I wouldn't need to where a dam if my partner told me her sexual history so I could make a decision whether I wanted to put myself at risk or not. And no, I could never see myself wearing one of those things because they are total mood killers, unlike condoms.

EDIT- Actually, upon further review I didn't even need to use the word "if". I would know the kind of risk I'm putting myself because my partner would tell me if we were going to have sex and therefore, dental dams are completely unnecessary. Either I know I feel comfortable going down on someone or I don't. Problem solved.
 
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Aww does someone still have a little sand in their vagina from our last discussion?

Yeah, condoms are real mood killers. Great logic lol.

And I wouldn't need to where a dam if my partner told me her sexual history so I could make a decision whether I wanted to put myself at risk or not. And no, I could never see myself wearing one of those things because they are total mood killers, unlike condoms.

EDIT- Actually, upon further review I didn't even need to use the word "if". I would know the kind of risk I'm putting myself because my partner would tell me if we were going to have sex and therefore, dental dams are completely unnecessary. Either I know I feel comfortable going down on someone or I don't. Problem solved.
Actually, one doesn't wear a dam. You'd probably know that if you were nearly as concerned about the safest sexual practices as you claim. As for any previous exchanges between you and I, I've been here forever. At this point, some avatars, like yours, are familiar to me, but I have no idea who you are. if we've talked in the past, I'm sure I found you to be as ignorant and egoist then as I do now. However, I'm not going to lose a second's sleep over what you know or don't know about sex when you're clearly not open to new information.
 

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Actually, one doesn't wear a dam. You'd probably know that if you were nearly as concerned about the safest sexual practices as you claim. As for any previous exchanges between you and I, I've been here forever. At this point, some avatars, like yours, are familiar to me, but I have no idea who you are. if we've talked in the past, I'm sure I found you to be as ignorant and egoist then as I do now. However, I'm not going to lose a second's sleep over what you know or don't know about sex when you're clearly not open to new information.

Judging by your whiny tone in this thread, I've clearly gotten under your skin for some reason. Stop crying and get over it.

And why would I know how to use a dental dam anyways? I know the risk I'm associating myself with when I have sex with someone. If anything, judging by the fact you said in another thread that you don't even want to know if you're partner is cheating on you, you should be the one concerned with practicing safe sex.