Ménage à trois (triple relationship)

dongalong

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Have any of you guys or girls been part of a "ménage à trois" ( 2 girls or guys + 1 guy or girl)
How did it occur and how was this relationship? Please share our experiences.
Thanks!
 

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My GF and I have done this more times than we can count. Each one was great! Ours were MFMs. We started when we went to a swing club in New York City. We had several MFMFs with other couples, and then we had some MFMs. We found that swinging really strengthened our relationship, eliminating any of the normal jealousy that goes on.

We have been swinging for eight years, and usually have a small bi swing party every month with another couple and four single guys. She has found that what she likes best is to have three guys with her, one sucking each nipple and another sucking her clit.

We love to watch, and hear, each other be sexually pleasured by other people. While the swinging is fun and gives us a lot of excitement and pleasure, we really treasure making love together. Usually after a play session, we will either finish it off with sex together or have a session ourselves when we get home.
 

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A true "ménage à trois" (both by definition and translation) is where three people not all of the same gender live together, and it sounds to me like that's what dongalong is asking about. That's something I've never experienced, I guess I'm just too much of a monogamist to share loyalties and affections that way in a relationship.

But I have had a number of threesomes (what libralover is talking about), mostly with married couples, and they were all uniquely different and enjoyable. That sort of threesome only requires a couple who are secure in their relationship but who enjoy sharing their intimacies with others along with another who respects the couple's relationship and commitment to each other. The ménage à trois would be a much more complex relationship and I just wouldn't know how to address that.