OK - i believe it is a widely held belief that when a guy has sex with a woman he has known for an hour that he is a stud to be able to bed her, while the perception of the woman is that she is a 'slut' or 'too easy'. Agreed? So why is the woman not given the same amount of congratulations for bedding a stud? After spending all day on Saturday boat hopping, party hopping and bar hopping, this attractive blonde woman told a friend (an ex in fact) I was with that she thought I was hot. The ex gave a very good report of me and told this chick I was available and to have at me. So we made out after she bought me a couple of drinks, we chatted and got along very well. I drove us back to the marina parking lot where a kiss good bye ended up being amazing sex - in the car. THe damned console was in the way so with one fell swoop I reached over, reclined her seat and away we went. The connection was very personal and very good and she performed with perfect candor. It was awesome to see the look of pleasure in her eyes and to see her encourage me for more. It was the kind of sex that left us both utterly speechless and barely able to move. After collecting ourselves I walked her back to the slip where her friends were waiting for her, wondering where she had gotten to. They were concerned about her absence at such at late hour and were happy to see her safely returned and questioned us as to our whereabouts. We non chlantly said that we had taken the long way back. Her friends looked at her, then me and blurted out "You had sex!" We were like, 'no, we were just talking...' routine. Then one of her friends pointed out how it is that the body glitter from her decolletage ended up all over my face....lol. I hadn't thought of one. Anyway - point being, it was a great thing. She was beautiful and clearly very adept at sex and was very open about wanting it. I admire that in a woman, especially one I find attractive. So I have wondered and asked friends "Where are more women like her? Why don't more women approach sex with a man they are attracted to like this? Instead of playing this whole passive/aggressive routine to death of 'i want you'. ok. So i want them then they are like 'how DARE you? You think I am EASY?' I don't care! If you want us to be together then knock off the ridiculous come hither and then push away. Guys - you know what I am talking about? Ladies - what do you think? Why don't more women say 'Hey - that's what I like, what I want and let's go' when there is mutual attraction?