M2M sex in prison

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  1. BIGdkluver

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    Not to bring up an unpleasant subject, but is it true that there's a lot of M2M sex going on in our prisons? Can anyone speak from personal experience about this, or do you know someone who works in a prison and has told you about the sex that goes on there?

    For example, what kinds of things go on, and how frequently does it happen?

    I'd really like to hear all about it from someone who knows. Thanks! :smile:
     
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    http://www.lpsg.org/sex-with-a-large-penis/32579-large-penis-in-prison.html?highlight=sex+in+prison

    http://www.lpsg.org/sex-with-a-larg...rning-people-gay.html?highlight=sex+in+prison
     
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    what an incredibly unpleasant subject.

    Prison is bad enough in and of itself. But to imagine that there are some inmates who are not celibate. Well, that just buggers the mind.
     
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    Whats with all jail threads?:confused:
     
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    It is unreal to expect men to forego sex in prison, especially when the straight guys there are being denied association with there straight love object! That sex is rampant is only natural.. would though that bareback sex and rape were not so prevalent ... so as to minimize new occurrences of AIDS.
     
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    OZ capitalizes on the prison rape angle. Some of that man on man action is hot though.
     
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    I think that some people keep forgetting that there are a lot of men who are unwantingly forced to have sex in prison just to be able to survive. So a situation where other people glorify the m2m sex thing in prison, a situation where the abuse of power is fact, and you know that a lot of the above is going down..simply turns my stomach.
    ( not talking about the consenting guys who willingly have sex ofcourse ;-)..For them prison probably is "heaven" (lack of a better word))

    And next to that it is really sad actually when you think of the fact that straight guys turn to other guys to releave themselves from their desires, because there is no other way for them to do so (other then their boring hands)...But on the other hand maybe it took the prison system to bring out their bi-sexual side. Or is it really just desperation? I don't know..

    Humanity and imprisonment dont always go along with each other i guess..

    Sad..
     
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    Do they give them lube in jail? What do they use toothpaste?:tongue:
     
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    I worked in a LA State Prison for a short period but my little brother worked in the same prison for a little over 4 years. I never caught anyone having sex but did catch an inmate jacking off before but I said nothing to him b/c he was in the bathroom by himself (which he can't do). I said nothing to the guy b/c I was conducting a count in the dorm and the dude has every disease you can think of from AIDS to TB. My bro told me if I did ever walk on 2 guys having sex that it would change my life, in a bad way. He meant that for one, it's gross that 2 dudes are doing it but most importantly most times it isn't consensual (did I spell that right?). Not being cruel towards gays, just not my cup of tea or my bros. Sex in prison is forbidden. If an inmate is caught having sex, masturbating in public (or even in the toilets) or just "whipping" it out in the open then it carries punishment by being locked up in the cell blocks and a sex charge going on your permanent record and extra time added to the sentence. There is nothing good about this subject so let's drop the "fantasy" b/c like Ledroit and uncut said, there is nothing good about this subject. Just ask the man who just got out of prison after 10+ years.
     
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    Wow.

    1. Sex in prison occurs for many reasons (from least to greatest):
    a) Because they got lucky and are both LGBT and found each other and had access to each other.
    b) Because one is LGBT and forces their sexual wanton sexual gratification onto another. This is still rape and stirrape
    c) Because while they are straight, they are close friends and have no one else / or if they speak for each other they won't be 'taken'. This is known as situational sexual orientation and only lasts as long as the actual situation.
    d) Because there is a power struggle. An issue of control. Someone is either used as protection, companion (used being the key word here) or commodity.

    In all cases situational homosexual behavior (key word now is behavior, and NOT -ality) ends immediately upon release.

    Uncut, I have various posts where you question homosexual threads. Why?

    Nismosimo, I know you think your being 'modern', but really your just being insulting. I'm not faulting you for trying- just try a little harder, ok? Consensual sex isn't gross, its beautiful, no matter what kind it is or WHERE it takes place. The fact that you don't like it does not make it gross.

    Emjay, not to be cruel, but your an idiot. Prison is not "heaven" for gays. sheesh.

    As far as the fantasy issue goes, get over it. MANY adult fantasies are bad in someones eyes. As long as they are just that.... fantasies held by consensual adults... ITS OKAY.

    And by the way, I'm a psychologist with explicit professional and academic work in Forensics and a masters in criminal justice. just fyi.
     
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    And only in cases of molesting a younger person there has been shown future homosexuality or just abnormal sexual BEHAVIOR by that person. YOU CAN'T REALLY TURN A HEALTHY PERSON GAY! Although that is not to say, in all honesty, that people use such experiences as an allowance (more PC word for excuse to 'come out').
     
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    @Eatdick..It's Dear Ms idiot to you asswipe!..

    If you look at other threads about this subject you see other people thinking it might be "heaven"due to the big dicked men walking around in prison. That's why i used the word.

    And calling me an Idiot is actually a projection of yourself, because you should have known that the word "heaven" was put in sarcasticly.

    As this is an open forum everyone is allowed to vent their opinion about a subject, and not about attacking other people who actually, if you read well are sharing the same position. But if you felt offended in some way..THAT is about you and not about me or them.. So please do some psychology on that.Thank you

    Where i come from people have the opportunity to satisfy their sexual needs in a sound and protected way with their "partners" or in their own space by themselves and with respect for their humanity..even if they are imprisoned. So they won't have to be subjected to all of the extremes going down in other prisons around the world (read: US in particular, but also in Africa and other parts of the world).

    FYI, stating your background doesnt give you more authority..anyone can share their opinion in this matter, because it's about humanity in my eyes and everyone is an "expert" on that..
     
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    Ms. Idiot,

    Sorry, not apologetic. Gay people don't walk around going "man, I wish I was in prison... So I could be ass raped and traded like a pokemon card....". Do you wish you were in position where you were possibly raped or traded like currency? Is that something you want for yourself? Are you saying it is your opinion that gay people are fundamentally different from straight people and from yourself and they, as a matter of sexuality and culture, do want this experience? Is that actually what you are defending?

    Oh, and my professional and academic background does give me authority on the matter, actually. Whether or not you believe it, well, thats up to you. But if you think I'm wrong, please show me how and offer a little citation. And I don't believe I was stifling anyone else's opinion here. I was sharing my experience and pointing out some bad stuff- like the stuff you were saying.

    Why don't you take a moment and breath and get real here. Reread your post. I've copied it below for your convenience:

    Now, can you precisely point out what part of that post should have told me that you were obviously joking and being humorous? You specifically said that for 'them' prison is probably 'heaven' - "for lack of a better word". So whatever, you can pretend that what you said wasn't just plain wrong but everyone that has read it will know.
     
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    :),

    I think you need the take big deap breath and relax a little......really!

    I think no one walks around in prison walking around thinking that they are in "heaven". Neither gay or straight. Involentary sex, can happen amongst gay and straight people. You made it a gay thing. My "heaven"-remark was just my remark as a respons to a remark about that subject that i have read before. So that first column is waaaaaay off base of what i ever tried to discuss. So were you get off saying those thing..beats me! Next to that voluntary sex and rape are 2 different things.

    I do not need to explain every chosen word, comma, point, hyphen or exclamation point in order for you not to be offensive, because that is what you were and are doing. Nore do i have to answer to you.You were not just stating your point or debating the inaccuracy of someone else's opion. You were getting personal, because you took it too personal. You have a right to have your own interpretation of everything that is written, as do i.

    I know exactly what i have said and with what intention it was said. English is not my native tongue, so i might not discuss this point so eloquently or use the right words.So if it makes you feel better to think, feel, or believe the worse or to interpret all of the discussions in some other negative manner..be my guest. I cant and i wont stop you or anyone else. I know exactly where my heart is and what my intentions were regarding this subject.

    But what i do know is that you are way over-exagerating what has been said, meant or discussed. This line of conversation followed a series of threads going round at that time about the subject of sex in prison. So if in your haste and fast judgment you decided to take the agressive route..that's a choice that probably fits your personality.

    Its not the way i live my life :). You on the other hand have a very nasty and mean streak in your way of communicating..

    Next to that..discussing something with someone who's overly sensitive about certain aspects is a dead end street.

    Having "knowledge" and authority with regards to certain subjects in life is a beautiful thing and should stimulate people to educate and enlighten others, especially when you feel this passionate about a subject. However, in no way should this authority be misused to abuse and belittle others. And that's what you did. It discredites you as a genuine "expert" in my eyes.

    Thank you for your time, yet again ;-)..
     
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