M2M sex without making out

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It's not all that uncommon depending when it occurs. If you are an early
morning fucke/ fuck I/we never kiss before the deed is done.
 

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Have connected several times with two different 30-something bi-guys, both of whom said they just weren't into it (making out). Fun otherwise though. Hard to understand not wanting that part of the intimacy.
 

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I did this last week with my bf. It seemed strange at first but when we got into it, it just came naturally and we didnt really need to make out.
Granted it probably would have made it better but still.
 

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I'd say half and half, overall.

But it does depend on circumstances.

It is less likely when one or other of the people in this particular rendezvous is also in a ( more or less ) committed relationship with someone else.

So, for example, if you went to a cruising grounds and hooked up with someone who was married to a woman, he'd be less likely to want ( or allow ) kissing.

But it can be true of anyone. People should
(a) do what they want ...
(b) accept that there may be consequences of doing what they want ...
(c) not judge others, and not always think other people's decisions are "directed at" them ...
(d) be prepared to change, and enjoy flexibility and personal development across time ...
 

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Only if you have some kind of issue with the fact of what you're doing, I'd say.

If you're an openly gay male who is being intimate with another openly gay male in a mutually consensual scenario, why on Earth wouldn't you want to kiss? Seriously - you'll take a dick in the ass but you won't kiss on the lips? How does that make sense?

Which is what leads me to the conclusion that only men who aren't entirely certain they want to be doing this wouldn't want to kiss. It genuinely makes no sense to me otherwise.

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