Hi, im new here, just wanted some advice really as ive read quite a few threads and you peeps seem to know what your talking about :smile: I live with my bf, hes 8 years older than me so we have different interests. He earns the most money, has his own business etc and seems to use this against me. He makes me feel i should be grateful 24 hours a day for the things he does for me (mainly things money can buy) and is very jealous. He doesnt like me having male friends and im not allowed to talk to ex's, even ones that are good friends now. He hates me going out without him and doesnt trust me. However hes allowed to do what he wants, he has female friends etc and frequently lies to me about this. Hes really starting to make me feel worthless even though deep down i know im not. Im starting to depend on him and this makes the situation harder. Any advice??