Magic wand for girlfriend (valentines day)

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My girlfriend(28) and I (29) both from Los Angeles have been dating for almost four years now. We still have sex maybe once a week but it's definitely slowed down. Her and I both have our own business, work a lot, and both have stressful jobs.

I've been thinking about getting her a magic Wand or something similar to improve this. I also want her to have it so she can get off when I don't cause I know she doesn't really masturbate or get herself off. Personally I am about 7-7.5 hard but very thick.

I wanted to know some opinions or even similar stories. Would this be weird? Would this tarnish the relationship or improve it?

Thanks
 
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If you want to get her a sex toy and haven't already established what kinds of things she likes, go shopping with her. Not everyone likes the same kind of stimuli from toys. Also, your dick size is pretty irrelevant for a discussion about vibrators for your girlfriend :p
 
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If you want to get her a sex toy and haven't already established what kinds of things she likes, go shopping with her. Not everyone likes the same kind of stimuli from toys. Also, your dick size is pretty irrelevant for a discussion about vibrators for your girlfriend :p

Thanks, I'm sure we could find one around us.. Kinda thought it'd be a better surprise since she's kinda private..

Yeah I just didn't want it to seem like I thought it was a size thing! Although me including it does kinda say something :x
 
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You might get lucky and find a toy that really works for her, but even when I went shopping for myself it took multiple tries to find a vibrator that did it for me. I flat out wasted way too much money on a fancy rechargeable g-spot vibrator, the first time I bought a sex toy. It didn't really do much for me. Second try I didn't spend a ton, thankfully, but the rabbit style vibrator was only "okay". Third time I found one that was great for me.

My $0.02 is find a small, friendly, hopefully locally owned adult shop where the employees don't hate their job. Or, if that isn't your cuppa tea, online stores are pretty okay for having reviews, but I would still suggest getting her input.
 
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I'm not speaking for anyone else here, just myself and I'm probably the odd one out.

I'd much rather have a bunch of red roses, or just a nice card for valentine's Day. Sure, I'm up for toys to spice things up if you'd like, but i wouldn't really appreciate it as a valentine's gift.

I guess what I'm saying is, know your audience
 

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I'm not speaking for anyone else here, just myself and I'm probably the odd one out.

I'd much rather have a bunch of red roses, or just a nice card for valentine's Day. Sure, I'm up for toys to spice things up if you'd like, but i wouldn't really appreciate it as a valentine's gift.

I guess what I'm saying is, know your audience
This is me too. But make mine a potted plant. Cut flowers make me a little sad a week later. Just spend time with me. Honestly, that's all I need. A sex toy on a gifting holiday, especially one when I feel like sex is already expected anyway, feels like a lot of pressure, to me. Let's just exchange flirty cards, catch a comedy show, or get the telescopes out, or drink all the wine. Phones off, quality time.
 

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Vibrators are really personal. Personally, the Wand is too much power for me and way too big. And I’m kind of with Ms. BnF here, I’d like prefer something else. I’d actually like something that more relationship oriented for Valentines Day. A good meal, a personally written letter with all the things loved about me, my favourite chocolates (I love food!), and leisurely sex in a clean bed.
 
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I would rather eat tasty food as a gift than be given a vibrator, as an aside. I carefully curated my collection of pervy stuff. Rem doesn't need to add more. The toys I want, I know what they are, and will eventually buy them.
 

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I don't give a single shit about Valentines Day. We don't celebrate it.

If he ever got me anything as an actual gift for that particular holiday, I would check his temperature and ask him if he's feeling ok.

We celebrate our relationship every day we participate in it. We gift things to each other randomly when we feel like it.

Every time we've gotten a sex toy, we got it together.