Maintaining a hard cock when being fucked

[WilliamG]

What is the deal with keeping a hard-on while receiving anal? I'm bi-curious and not had a real cock... yet. When I sit on one of my toys or my wife does me either with strapon or handheld toy - I loose my erection. Now that's not to be confused with the still amazing pleasure I'm feeling. I even cum with a flaccid cock. Huge amounts - but soft. But most of the gay vids I watch the bottom many times has an amazing hard cock while being fucked.

So what's most common when receiving?

 

[1178303]

Lots of guys go soft when being fucked. It’s nothing to worry about. Just enjoy it.

 

[SilverEye]

I stay rigid while getting fucked. Not sure dude. It just stays that way. My guy hits my prostate hard. Maybe that has something to do with it?

 

[scallylad85]

What is the deal with keeping a hard-on while receiving anal? I'm bi-curious and not had a real cock... yet. When I sit on one of my toys or my wife does me either with strapon or handheld toy - I loose my erection. Now that's not to be confused with the still amazing pleasure I'm feeling. I even cum with a flaccid cock. Huge amounts - but soft. But most of the gay vids I watch the bottom many times has an amazing hard cock while being fucked.

So what's most common when receiving?

its not real sex. its highly edited, often reshot for the best video and im sure they give them lots of viagra or calais.

Besides usually a lot of these bottoms are in their early 20's so keeping boners are less of a problem

 

[WilliamG]

I’m always hard when I get fucked. But if you’re still enjoying it and cumming hard, that’s all that matters anyways!

So you do stay hard. That is one of the most beautiful views is when a nice cock has entered his ass and his cock looks ready to explode. For me though, an overwhelming sense of pleasure takes over as my ass relaxes. My need to drive my ass onto the toy overrides my erection. Not complaining (feel sorry for other straight guys who've not done this). Maybe with a real cock, things change... ;-)

 

[WilliamG]

its not real sex. its highly edited, often reshot for the best video and im sure they give them lots of viagra or calais.

Besides usually a lot of these bottoms are in their early 20's so keeping boners are less of a problem

True enough. But oddly for me, my cock stays hard longer as I've gotten older (plus testosterone...). I can fuck the wife for a looong time. But as soon as that wonderful feeling of a toy entering my ass hits me - it shrinks. Now if I get head while I have a toy in me, it does get hard again. But without direct stimulation it goes away.

 

[scallylad85]

I love my toys, but nothing compares with the real thing! Nothing hotter for me than getting my ass handed to me by a hung top.

same but beggars cant be choosers

 

[Bunny35]

I always stay hard when being fucked, I never understood why anyone wouldn't!

 

[Shyguy312]

I stay hard when on top and doggy. On my back, I tend to go soft as I am enjoying the feelings in my ass!

 

[erpap]

I always stay hard when being fucked, I never understood why anyone wouldn't!

Me too?

 

[erpap]

Me too?

Me too!

 

[Bryan9656]

I’m always hard while getting fucked... the biggest turn on is feeling someone balls deep in you!

 

[takethecurve]

I don't bottom often, my bf prefers that position more, but I usually stay hard when I bottom. Probably because in order for me to comfortably do it, I have to be especially horny and turned on (his size can be too much otherwise). Sometimes I go soft though. Still cum buckets.

 

[Johnw81]

I tend to lose my bone when being fucked gently. Nothing wrong with it...I enjoy it but I go soft. Now when getting it hard and fast...I stay very hard and will usually spray while being fucked.

 

[Brodie888]

I think it comes down to where your thoughts are during sex.

If I focus on my own pleasure and my cock I can stay hard. If my thoughts are on the pleasure in my ass or giving my partner pleasure then I tend to be less erect.

You can use this to your advantage if you want be able to cum on command.

 

[jslates215]

If it feels good, who cares? I stay hard, but I stay hard on my knees too.

 

[tangas]

What is the deal with keeping a hard-on while receiving anal? I'm bi-curious and not had a real cock... yet. When I sit on one of my toys or my wife does me either with strapon or handheld toy - I loose my erection. Now that's not to be confused with the still amazing pleasure I'm feeling. I even cum with a flaccid cock. Huge amounts - but soft. But most of the gay vids I watch the bottom many times has an amazing hard cock while being fucked.

So what's most common when receiving?

I like it your wife uses a strapon on you so cool man

 

[tangas]

I think it is natural to lose your boner because you have pleasure elsewhere. I think if you bone up while having sex in the ass you will have a boner only porn because of viagara

 

[WilliamG]

I think it comes down to where your thoughts are during sex.

If I focus on my own pleasure and my cock I can stay hard. If my thoughts are on the pleasure in my ass or giving my partner pleasure then I tend to be less erect.

You can use this to your advantage if you want be able to cum on command.

As I get older, my ability to control my cock has increased 10 fold. When I'm fucking, I can activley control how soft or hard I am for hit different spots or angles. But... When that big blunt toy starts into my ass, I go into an almost meditative stat. And that's where the erection goes away. Still amazing pleasure to be sure! Maybe I'll let her fuck me fast while I stroke myself per the previous comment about staying hard when fucked fast!

 

[Brodie888]

As I get older, my ability to control my cock has increased 10 fold. When I'm fucking, I can activley control how soft or hard I am for hit different spots or angles. But... When that big blunt toy starts into my ass, I go into an almost meditative stat. And that's where the erection goes away. Still amazing pleasure to be sure! Maybe I'll let her fuck me fast while I stroke myself per the previous comment about staying hard when fucked fast!

Yeah. If you keep your mind focused on your cock by masturbating and reaching orgasm you'll stay hard.

Firm constant direct pressure on your prostate as you cum will magnify the intensity of your orgasm significantly.