My boyfriend has just moved back to college and I'm already devastated by this sudden shift into a longer distance relationship. Just a few days ago, I had said something really mean to him in anger and he became extremely insulted and hurt by what I said. His solution was that he tells me how he feels, in a short 10 minute conversation, then suggests that we decrease our communication so that when we see each other we'll appreciate each other more. I am devastated by this because a. I hurt him really bad b. I'm stuck at home alone (I just graduated and all my friends are going up to school) c. I can't see him and d. he seems really really gung ho about the communication decrease and I'm literally nearing tears almost every day since it began. I awfulize the situation and think that by decreasing our communication combined with the major distance between us, will tear us apart. Also, he seems so...CHIPPER about it. Like, he's not emotional about it at all...he says its just his way of dealing with it that makes it seem like he's calm but he says he's really hurting, but I just don't know. Anyway...sorry for my vent. Comments are appreciated, but aren't necessary.