Make up Sex

[merc41]

Has any body gotten so upset with their partner that after an argument and kissing and making up. They were not at all interested in make up sex? I'm horny all the time and will fuck at the drop of a hat. But sometimes the intensity of the argument or if I believe she is being insincere I want nothing to do with her. Everything else could be normal but I couldn't be able to get it up even if she would do anythiing I wanted. Zip zero libido.

 

[lapdog2001]

Has any body gotten so upset with their partner that after an argument and kissing and making up. They were not at all interested in make up sex? I'm horny all the time and will fuck at the drop of a hat. But sometimes the intensity of the argument or if I believe she is being insincere I want nothing to do with her. Everything else could be normal but I couldn't be able to get it up even if she would do anythiing I wanted. Zip zero libido.

If whatever you were arguing about is unresolved, then I can see your point in having no interest in her at that moment. Either you need to come to a mutually agreeable resolution, or agree to disagree. Then you need to learn to let the bad feelings go and to clear your mind.

I've had disagreements with my various significant others over time, and wasn't really in the mood when the issue was unresolved. Usually she wasn't in the mood either, so sex just wasn't going to happen.

On the other hand, after coming to an agreement, settlement, or mutual conclusion, makeup sex can be really hot! I remember a (now ex) girlfriend with sometimes had a hair-trigger temper, so she was really pissed off, but eventually settled down. She was also perpetually horny, so after she calmed down, my advances were readily accepted and we had some really great, really hot, sex. She liked me to thrust hard and deep sometimes, and and this case I remember grabbing her hips and ensuring she got every last mm of me on every thrust!

 

[merc41]

If whatever you were arguing about is unresolved, then I can see your point in having no interest in her at that moment. Either you need to come to a mutually agreeable resolution, or agree to disagree. Then you need to learn to let the bad feelings go and to clear your mind.

I've had disagreements with my various significant others over time, and wasn't really in the mood when the issue was unresolved. Usually she wasn't in the mood either, so sex just wasn't going to happen.

On the other hand, after coming to an agreement, settlement, or mutual conclusion, makeup sex can be really hot! I remember a (now ex) girlfriend with sometimes had a hair-trigger temper, so she was really pissed off, but eventually settled down. She was also perpetually horny, so after she calmed down, my advances were readily accepted and we had some really great, really hot, sex. She liked me to thrust hard and deep sometimes, and and this case I remember grabbing her hips and ensuring she got every last mm of me on every thrust!

Your probably right. She rarely says I'm sorry or even takes responsibility. Quite the opposite of me. I was always taught to be a man admit your wrong and claim responsibility. She usually sits quietly all evening and then at bed time figures a good fuck or bj will make things right. All I want is a bit of sincerity. I'm perpetually horny and for me ro turn down sex she knows I'm very upset. Usually if I have a problem I will try and discuss it in a normal non confrontational mode. She always acts surprised, unknowing or denies. Which only escalates matters. I guess if I didn't love her it wouldn't be so bad but I honestly would do anything for her.Head over heels in love after 47 years of marriage. With the libido of a teenager with rageing hormones.

 

[deleted18388141]

make up sex isn t always working, it s normal to not feel excited after an argument
maybe what could work is a hug... where you remember its not about "You" but about the stress of the situation or the stress about the argument