When my wife and I get down for sex, we're all over each other the entire time. Sometimes we start with lots of kissing and touching. Or, she'll go straight for a blowjob because she wants my cock in her mouth so bad (it makes her wet and the more she sucks me, the more she wants me in her), and then we'll kiss and make out. Then other times, she wants me to go down on her, but I really, really want to anyway. If I'm on her first, she's on me next, and then I'm back down on her, and vice versa. If she gives me head first, I'm not instantly throwing it into her, unless she wants it that way, I go down on her, and then she gives me head again, etc.
Lots of back and forth before actual penetration. My wife cums so much, so so very much all the time, every time. Because of this, we never ever think about how many Os she needs before penetration for it to feel comfy. She cums more times than she can count every session; she's never been able to keep full count in almost 20 years of us being together. She's wild!
But concerning the pre-coitus female O that is the discussion thread here, I must ask, men, do your women get themselves off before the act, or are you the one doing it? My wife loves to shower before sex. It makes her get warm and she lotions/oils up so her skin is super smooth, and, she cums like a wild banshee in the shower. She uses the detachable shower head and edges her clit for between 5-10 minutes, riding on the extreme edge of her O, and then finally lets it go and she gets off way way hard. Her pussy is usually red, swollen and dripping when she meets me after her shower. This "warm up" before sex is what really gets her comfy for Os and my cock.
I'm curious to know if women help get themselves ready, too.
