Making love or f*****g?

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  1. fgeorgio

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    Hello
    I have this girl on the side,she thinks we are together all the time,dont judge me on it.Anyway,the reason i made the thread is that she is a nice,polite girl that never curses,or watches porno or things like that.I often say to her i want to take her home and fuck her and she makes a point to say that we dont fuck,we make love.
    Recently i managed to convince her to see i porn film i have on my computer.After we watched it and were about to make love,she whispered in my ear "tonight fuck me!",which surprised me.
    My question is has this ever happened to you?What do you think about it?Thanks.
     
  2. Bacchusbigboy

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    It is the physical activity that will bring the people fucking to climax. Making love is sharing the activity with the other person in a loving and caring.

    My ex wife and I would often say want a fuck and that was what was sex often a quickie. Other time one of use would say no I want to make love and this would mean taking our time to enjoying each other often with long passionate kissing and sex talk.
     
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    Well said. Until I met my older partner a couple years ago, I only knew about fucking and nothing of making love. Our younger partner experienced the same thing upon being with us after the third or fourth time--friction and other stimuli to climax are great, but attending to a lover's body, mind, and soul durin sex brings it to a whole new level. Hell, we can make love--all 3 of us or any pair--without orgasm and feel totally satisfied, and we can fuck like bunnies all weekend and feel unsatisfied and empty... beyond our balls!

    Crap! It sounds like I'm growing up fast.

    Crap!

    -D
     
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    I think that sums it up - thanks D

     
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    Can't say I've ever had that exact thing happen, but I've been with a few women who liked both at different times, or a mixture of both at the same time. Believe it or not, I don't necessarily think that fucking and making love are always two different things though. I think if there is true passion involved, then they can really be about the same thing. If done right and with the right person, I know both can be very intense, and actually quite orgasmic. Might be rarer I suppose, but it can happen I believe.
     
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    For me as a woman, I was brought up to believe fucking was what naughty girls did- and therefore for years I wouldn't refer to sex as fucking and often felt disrespected if the guy did. As Ive grown- (I wont say grown older) !! Ive found that since I dont have any type of casual sex anyway- we are usually 'making love' and part of the pleasure is when he would say "I wanna fuck you so bad right now" or me to say "just fuck me now- hard- I want you bad" and yes Oz you have it right, usually those wanton fuck sessions were quick and hot, and just as good as the lovemaking that can go on for hours of delightful activities- but i have to add they were only so because of the intimate genuine feelings for each other. *sigh* been a long time.:cool:
     
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    Yep...the passion exchanges with the "right" persons.

    I fuck the ones I love intensely...withou passion element I'm not there.

    Not long ago I was natural passionate without been exposed to porn and stuff..but it came a time I was exposed to different things what it did enriched my experience greatly. I have been learning and will not stop to learn as an apprentice for life. The excitement of the surprise and that routine must be avoided because of boredom, to let my fantasy mind to express itself and the need of know others fantasies and expressions..is all exciting to me.

    But I do have a natural "strict" process of choosing mates going on as having this vibes and energy as being compatible with my ways. I do choose passionate males to exchange and I'm not into casual stuff because I'm not looking for physical performances on the spot, most males can give to me and it is just a release (I can release by masturbation) but passion fuck comming from matching traits males with my own. I do go from my guts, vibes, observations and etc and it takes a while to process.
     
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    Fucking is hot, its hard. I like to ram it all the way inside a girl. And move with lightning speed really fast sometimes, which is kinda like a vibrating sensation I think.

    I imagine making love as slow and tender...maybe spooning or something. Fucking is hot though and its hot to hear a girl say 'fuck me' and shit like that. I guess making love is good but for me fucking is animalistic, and really hot and sexy. Making love usually isn't. Even though I have connected with people in the past and was like 'wow', its the dirty talkers and the girls who like to get fucked hard that really turn me on...I'm into that shit.
     
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    Slow, deep, passionate sex for the win.
    Mix it up with a little bit of fucking here and there. ;)
     
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    ohhhhh YESSS baby thats exactly it:smile:
     
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    Yea def.
    And after this Valentines Day- the whole passionate thing is definetly something i am a fan of...
     
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    Making love is the ultimate in sexual activity. My wife enjoys the senual touching; lotion rubbed over her body. Her vagina becomes wet, while my penis drips pre-cum. Then the slow/teasing penetration; wow! We start off slow; taking our time. I love the feel of my penis inside her warm, wet vagina. As our bodies move together in rhythm with each other sex becomes faster and harder.
     
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    Oooo, baby you know what I like! :flirt:


     
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    Yes, Making Love is fun. Making Love can even lead to "fucking." I have had my spouse yell at me after an appropriate period of pre play, fore play and even insertion of my penis and gentle stroking say as she neared the orgasm state, fuck me, fuck me. It even happens during serious foreplay with my finger/s inside here. Oh, the fun.
     
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    This discussion reminds me of a line from Redd Foxx's stand up act. He said:

    "Oh you can can say 'making love' to be nice, but if you're doing it right, you're fucking."
     
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