making my girl cum

[greekfella]

i think i have a problem ,wheever i fuck my girlfreind she usally dosnt cum , its usaly when i go dwn on her, my cocksize is about 7in fully hard , when i fuck her its usally really hard and long, she loves it but hardly cums when i fuck her, maybe its becasue im not that big and she needs a bigger cock,something thicker ? what do you people think?

 

[Fire Agate]

you gotta eat her out and finger her pussy dude. for awile, then fuck

 

[Divine1]

Your dick is fine.
More foreplay and ask her what else you can do to give her the big O.

 

[WildHoney]

I think you need to stop worrying so much about your cock.

The VAST majority of women do not cum from just fucking. Get her to stimualte her own clit while you fuck her doggie style...bring a vibrator into sex play.

Spend time on foreplay and enjoy the build up. Don't rush it, sex can last for hours and the more she is into it, the better it will be for you.

Don't give in to the "my cock should get her off" theory. It takes time and skills to make women cum. Her clit if her cock, worship it.

Be open and communicate with her, ask her what she likes.

READ her body language, if she is moving away and not griding into your hand or face, do somehting that makes that happen, change it up.

xx
Honey

 

[JMeister]

Try fingering her clit while you fuck her. Some girls need directly clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm and some will not orgasm from intercourse so don't be disappointed if she can't orgasm from intercourse.

 

[UncutScot7.5]

Yeah dude seriously, some women just can't cum from intercourse. You want to work at to be sure she ENJOYS it, but sometimes climax just isn't possible so don't worry. A 7'' penis is MORE THAN FINE. Just work at being a more consideriate lover and communicate well. And drop your feelings of inadequacy. Really!

 

[greekfella]

she really enjoys it when i put 4 fingers in her,she kinda likes to be streched, likes to be fucked hard

 

[seahorses]

Is it a problem, or are you making it a problem? What does your GF say; how does she feel aboout it? Sometimes women are quite happy to be on the train, chugging along enjoying the scenery and not bothered about the destination, though they might not want it every time. However, you won't know till you talk. Ask her what else she likes; what else you can do. Communication is very important.

 

[rich-9.8]

Your dick is fine. Some women just don't come from intercourse. I think you are the wrong size to be looking for small dick humiliation here

 

[WhiteZombie]

TENACIOUS D LYRICS - Fuck Her Gently

 

[Osiris]

I have actually heard that in some cases if the guy is too big for the girl (not meaning like hitting ovaries and that sort of painful stuff), she can sometimes have no sensation.

Haven't heard this from any women yet, but I read it somewhere.

 

[greekfella]

well i have talked to my girl before about bigger cock,and i really dont think she has a problem with it! couple times we have watched porn and when she sees a big cock shes always like OMG, she looked really intrested! there was a time when i ws in her email and one of her guy freinds had sent her pics of his cock which was pretty huge looked alot bigger then mine, and every now and then she brings up his name, maybe thats why

 

[B_Hung Jon]

My g/f cums when the level of our passion is just right. It's hard to explain. You've got to know her body and her reactions, and that takes some time. My g/f gets very aroused when she's feeling certain emotions as well as sexual sensations. So she cums really hard if I kiss her when she's extra aroused. It's the timing and her emotional state that produces orgasms for her, but also for me.

 

[Osiris]

Hmmm...

Why is a "friend" sending her cock pics? I have lot's of female friends, but would never send them cock pics.

 

[ramwella]

The problem probably has more to do with your technique rather than yyour size.
Has she had orgasms by herself or with other bfs?

If she has never had an orgasm (or infrequent ones), then you may have to be patient and persistent with your oral and finger skills. And for now, forget about trying to make her cum while fucking her.

Plan a session when it's only about her pleasure. No nookie for you-- sorry. Also, I have found that a lot of mental foreplay works well-- things you can say or do during the day long before you see her and before having sex. That stuff really puts women "in the mood".

If she is used to orgasms, then you have to let her direct the action. Listen to her! Pay attention to her body language. Does she moan or shiver when you tongue or finger her a certain way? Usually its just a very slight or subtle motion. When you notice what it is, stick to it. It may take a while. Your tongue and wrist will start to ache, but don't give up. No pain, no gain!
Hopefully, she's vocal enough so that you can hear her mounting to an orgasm.

Don't worry. Once you learn how to give her a first-rate orgasm, you'll get all the nookie you can possibly handle. She'll be throwing her pussy on your dick 24/7.

 

[Red8x6]

I go down on my girl until she comes. Then I do what I want for as long or short as I want, knowing she's satisfied. She has had bigger than me (reminding me of the "thick [uncut] Englishman" every now and then) so I can go all the way into her, and that steady pelvic bone contact gets her off again if I make it last. Eleven years so far with her...

 

[ukmale]

Oh boy this post makes me feel good for a change...no problems for me maybe your teqhnique needs working on