Male Bisexuality Acceptance

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I think it’s because many gay men just don’t see the vasoconstriction of a pussy, one told me they look like a mashed up beef dinner lol, however for me you can’t beat a wet warm pussy that’s ready to go whenever, rather than waiting for a guy to douche or for them to say not today. I like men and women I really don’t see why people can’t like both.
 

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I came out as bisexual later in life. So for ma vast majority of my life I only dated women. When I came out as bisexual and tries to date both women and men I found almost all the women I went in dates with felt as you described like I was confused or that I couldn’t simply like both genders. One women I thought I was building a connection with asked me if I was a top or bottom. I said a top. She seemed to think that could be okay enough for her. I chose not to continue dating her as that seemed hurtful. I ended up dating a man and we’re still together. I still find it odd that gay men have no real issues with a bi guy but women do.
Yeah. It’s an irony. I guess women would find the competition difficult. Are you going to be distracted by another woman or another man…?
 

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Yeah. It’s an irony. I guess women would find the competition difficult. Are you going to be distracted by another woman or another man…?
Interesting point, women in general cannot compete continously with the sex drive of a man or provide sex so easily, readily, drama and stress free, without expecting some form of renumeration back.

A bi man who enjoys good bi sex with his fuckbuddy and vice versa, in most cases will continue to enjoy the pleasures of meaningless pleasurable sex. Women can up to a point, before the inevitable question arises, where is this relationship going?
 

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There aren't any downvotes here but if there were I'd probably get them but I'm gonna say something: I'm very wary of straight women due bad past experiences.
I might my current fuckbuddy before covid, in 2020. We hookup to fuck about once a month since then.

Its enjoyable, pleasurable meaningless sex that we get to have. Never had any issues, drama's or complications. He is a Dominant Top and I am a submissive feminine bottom, so naturally, we have good chemistry, we know our roles and we enjoy being with one another. We have enjoyed continuing to see each other, because his needs are met through me and mine though him, we are both private and discrete and dont seek any emotional or intimate relationship with the other.

We hook up to fuck, then go our seperate ways. Thats the beauty of bi sex. You can never get that kind of ongoing physical relationship with a woman.
 

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I might my current fuckbuddy before covid, in 2020. We hookup to fuck about once a month since then.

Its enjoyable, pleasurable meaningless sex that we get to have. Never had any issues, drama's or complications. He is a Dominant Top and I am a submissive feminine bottom, so naturally, we have good chemistry, we know our roles and we enjoy being with one another. We have enjoyed continuing to see each other, because his needs are met through me and mine though him, we are both private and discrete and dont seek any emotional or intimate relationship with the other.

We hook up to fuck, then go our seperate ways. Thats the beauty of bi sex. You can never get that kind of ongoing physical relationship with a woman.
My case wasn't exactly like that, is that many I've met are entitled, bigoted, ignorant and honestly not that interesting or hot to care, like some are so used to treating guys like shit and getting everything the moment you don't fall for them they get mad.
 
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Soooo true. Men enjoying man sex is like helping a buddy move furniture
Interesting point, women in general cannot compete continously with the sex drive of a man or provide sex so easily, readily, drama and stress free, without expecting some form of renumeration back.

A bi man who enjoys good bi sex with his fuckbuddy and vice versa, in most cases will continue to enjoy the pleasures of meaningless pleasurable sex. Women can up to a point, before the inevitable question arises, where is this relationship going?
 

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My case wasn't exactly like that, is that many I've met are entitled, bigoted, ignorant and honestly not that interesting or hot to care, like some are so used to treating guys like shit and getting everything the moment you don't fall for them they get mad.
me the character of MM sex and MF sex is just so different. In my experience I do all the work with a woman. Woo her, sweet talk her. Get her in the mood. Pleasure her, stroke her, caress and perform a sort of worship of her body. And she typically lies back and accepts all this, unless she wants to tell you what you’re doing wrong. There’s an expectation of being served from women. With two men it’s more reciprocal and equal. It’s helping each other find pleasure and there’s way less insecurity about body issues or emotions. Just an honest let’s do what feels good. Stupid cum faces and idiot dirty talk and vocal BS is just so lame but in the moment neither cares. No embarrassment. Just dudes getting off together. Even farts or body odour are all good. So what if he hasn’t shaved. No eau de cologne? A lot of laughter too I find with MM. the sense of humour is actually a bloke thing. Earthy and real.

the upside is a clear honesty with no pretension. The downside is there is less mystery and build up of erotic tension.

both are different. For me it’s not one or the other. It’s both. I like both at different times and occasions.
 

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My wife is bi & she thinks that everyone is bi to some extent, whether they admit it or explore that side of their sexuality or not.
I have been bicurious for years only about sucking a big cock at least once & maybe receiving a Peter North-like facial since I enjoy shooting huge loads onto my own face.
She knows that I used to selfsuck & wish I still could & she knows that I love shooting onto my own face when she's not around & she's supportive of both.
Although I really think that she'd be supportive of my bicuriousity, I don't feel comfortable disclosing my feelings to her.
 

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My wife is bi & she thinks that everyone is bi to some extent, whether they admit it or explore that side of their sexuality or not.
I have been bicurious for years only about sucking a big cock at least once & maybe receiving a Peter North-like facial since I enjoy shooting huge loads onto my own face.
She knows that I used to selfsuck & wish I still could & she knows that I love shooting onto my own face when she's not around & she's supportive of both.
Although I really think that she'd be supportive of my bicuriousity, I don't feel comfortable disclosing my feelings to her.
Interesting to know where that conversation would go. Why are you uncomfortable disclosing your bi curiosity to her?

with my wife I know for certain she would say - ah you are gay and you’ve been lying to me forever. It’s over. There would be no conversation and it would end the marriage.

but with a woman who admits her bisexuality I wonder if they have a sympathy, would be encouraging or would harbour a double standard.

PS. I actually have an inkling suspicion my wife has a degree of bi curiosity but won’t admit it even to herself. Just a hunch. But a few reasons I think that is the case. She’s the sort of person who is never honest about emotions.
 
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Interesting to know where that conversation would go. Why are you uncomfortable disclosing your bi curiosity to her?

with my wife I know for certain she would say - ah you are gay and you’ve been lying to me forever. It’s over. There would be no conversation and it would end the marriage.

but with a woman who admits her bisexuality I wonder if they have a sympathy, would be encouraging or would harbour a double standard.

PS. I actually have an inkling suspicion my wife has a degree of bi curiosity but won’t admit it even to herself. Just a hunch. But a few reasons I think that is the case. She’s the sort of person who is never honest about emotions.
Because of the 1% chance that she'd view me differently & it'd affect our marriage.
I'm just not willing to take that chance yet, but if I ever try sucking a big cock & like it, then I may tell her.
 
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Because of the 1% chance that she'd view me differently & it'd affect our marriage.
I'm just not willing to take that chance yet, but if I ever try sucking a big cock & like it, then I may tell her.
Yeah. Good point. I have no argument with that. Some things are precious and a relationship with her is worth preserving. I certainly feel that about my wife and the family we have built together. Howeve, I may also be wrong about my Mrs. I may have under estimated her conservative suburban mum image. She may be a groovy hipster chill chick in favour of an open marriage ….
 

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Yeah. Good point. I have no argument with that. Some things are precious and a relationship with her is worth preserving. I certainly feel that about my wife and the family we have built together. Howeve, I may also be wrong about my Mrs. I may have under estimated her conservative suburban mum image. She may be a groovy hipster chill chick in favour of an open marriage ….
Actually that’s probs my ultimate fantasy. That she’s a rocker. A cougar sex kitten wearing twin set and pearls ……. I digress…..
 
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Ugh, I can't edit the subject line, I meant Acceptance

Mod note: fixed it for you.

As someone else noted, bisexual men get a bad rap. Too often women and the gay community assume a bisexual man is really gay and adjust hasn’t accepted it yet. As a result of the sigma and lack of acceptance men face I wonder;

How many bisexual men are married to or partnered with a women and not out to her or anyone?

How many bisexual men are married to or partnered with a man?

Thoughts or experiences?
I'm partnered with a woman and we are both bisexual. We also swing AC/DC, which means we go both ways. Now whether or not people accept it, we don't care.
 

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I'd guess we're at least a couple generations away from bisexuality being mainstream accepted.
No it will be way sooner than that. A generation ago being gay was the absolute worst thing someone could be. Now nobody cares except for aging boomers.
 

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No it will be way sooner than that. A generation ago being gay was the absolute worst thing someone could be. Now nobody cares except for aging boomers.
I hope you are right - but my experience is that str8 women are not so accepting of their fella being bi. Although I am probs a little closer to that “aging boomer”. Demographic you mention.
 
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I hope you are right - but my experience is that str8 women are not so accepting of their fella being bi. Although I am probs a little closer to that “aging boomer”. Demographic you mention.
Gen Xer here and I have had the same experience with many Gen X and millennial women I have dated. They are totally fine with gay men but they don't want to date a bi guy. Then there some women who are only cool with it if their man is a top with dudes. If he takes it up the ass that is a no-go for a lot of gals. lol
 

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My wife is bi and I recently came out to her. I told her that it's BS for her to eat pussy but hold it against me for sucking a dick or having mine played with bi another guy. She agreed so we might be adding even more spice to our love life!