Male Bisexuality

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I think some guys are 100% straight, and some are 100% gay...and those two groups might make up 20% of the population. Some guys are 50/50...more attracted to people and personalities than the gender identities of women and men. Other guys exist in gray areas...maybe if a straight-ish guy is isolated away from women he might hook up with a guy. Maybe if a gay-ish guy gets drunk he hooks up with a woman...or visa versa.

Don't worry so much about how others define you...just make your own path to discover what interests you. If you want to be open about your bisexuality you might be an agent for changing some of the negative perceptions people have about bisexuals.

Believe or not, some of the most heterosexual men are transvestite lesbians (practically zero interest in men).

My point: strongly enjoying your masculine nature precludes some attraction to the same gender (penis size, jealously, ideal in men, etc).
 

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Yep bigbull - I knew of a straight married guy who wore womens clothes when he went out. had zero interest in men sexually.

Personally, I like both. I like men better. But do find women incredibly interesting and hot too. I would like to have my cake and eat it too (a MMF) ;)
 

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. . . While it is true that many bisexuals in many countries call themselves that way as a way to hide their true sexual identity (primarily gay), the truth is we human beings are wired to enjoy touch and tenderness by anybody. We dont because we do use filters. The sooner we leave those filters behind, the more we will enjoy our sexuality, regardless of how we construct it. It normal and healthful to have preferences, but they are that, only prefernces that shouldnt preclude us from enjoying sex as it comes. . . .

That's how I feel. I think some people sometimes put up artificial barriers (or filters), because the thought of having same sex attraction can be pretty damn scary, especially if you are living in a repressive country (or a repressive part of a country, e.g., the South, where I once lived). I know I felt that way when I was younger and found it pretty damn confusing to be attracted to both guys and girls. I'd think, even in my private thoughts, that I just wanted to jerk off with guys and that I could never kiss a guy or be truly emotionally attached to a guy. The truth is, once I was willing to let those filters drop, I was able to admit to myself that there are some guys I could kiss and be emotionally attached to. I sorely wish I had figured that out a long time ago and been open to some opportunities I shut down.
 

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So, how do you bring up the fact you are bi to a woman?[/QUOTE]

It's really very simple. When I meet someone new (male or female), and we are having that "conversation" where we are talking about who we have been with, I let them know that I've been with both men and women. I make it a point to bring it up on the first date.

Since it's very early in the relationship, a negative reaction won't hurt me because I hardly know the person. Their reaction is very important to me and is one of the deciding factors of whether there will be a second, or third date.


I have always said that you fall for the whole person not just a body part. Whoever I am in a relationship with I am committed to that person weather it is a woman or a man. My last relationship was with a guy and my next relationship will probably be with a woman. The one thing that I am having an issue with is in the past, my male relationships have been fairly short term, a year or so, and this last relationship was 12 years. How do I bring up that up to a woman? The relationship was too long not to acknowledge if a woman askes about my past and I wouldn't want to lie about it.
So, how do you bring up the fact you are bi to a woman?
 

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I have been with and dated few bi men, and its liberating to know, when your attracted to someone for physical, emotional or other reasons, their gender or sexual pref is not a barrier.

The open mindset is what appeals to me most so I would enjoy a mfm threesome with the right couple.

Love is love, lust is ... lust, sometimes no explaining or words necessary.

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