Male bonding (non gay)

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  1. Gecko4lif

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    Would you show nude pics of your girlfriend or at least soon to be girlfriend to a good friend of yours as a form of male bonding?

    This is of course assuming he is actually trust worthy and would not fuck you over.

    By good friend I mean a true ride or die, bros before hoes, bail you out when you call him at 3 am from Miami type friend.
     
  2. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    No.

    You obviously didnt have any respect for the woman if you did that.

    Plus,it's very immature:rolleyes:
     
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    You think so?

    He really seems to like her. And vice versa.

    I suppose it would be a respect question would it.
     
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    that's a revolting betrayal.

    ''hoes''?

    grow up already for fucksake.

    unless she's agreed to that then it's just sick.
     
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    I wonder if she did agree to it. Hmm.

    Wait if she did agree how would that be sick? That would be exhibitionism would it not?
     
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    i said UNLESS she agreed to that then it's sick.
    meaning that if she did agree then it's cool.
    if she didn't agree then your pal is an arsehole.
     
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    Ah ok misread.

    I wonder what some guys would have to say about this.

    I mean your obviously right from a moral standpoint but doesnt mean as many people agree as should
     
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    Yea I Would Show My Girl Nude Pics, But Not As A Form Of Male Bonding...Its Perfectly Normal, Thats What Guys Do, Nothing Immature About It.......And If The Nigga Was Ta Fuck You Over And Fuck YA Girl( She Wasnt Meant Fa Ya) Or Snitch Or Anything, Then He Ain't Really Ya Nigga
     
  9. dolfette

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    i have no idea what you just said.
     
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    If she was really HOT and you wanted to show off, hell ya do it. Is she topless, nude, raunchy pose etc. As long as the pics are somewhat classy I'd show him.
     
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    These were pretty hardcore solo pics.

    Very stylized though.
     
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    i'm going to print this thread out and show it to teenage girls, as a ''just because you love him, doesn't mean you can trust him'' lesson.

    what if it was your sister or your mother being shared around like that?

    would you be cool with your dad showing his buddies a pic of your mom engaged in a little self satisfying?

    no?

    what about your sister's bf flashing her boobs on his mobile in the locker room?

    no?
     
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    well in that lesson, make sure you teach common sense....why would you engage in the act of being photographed when knowing the potential outcome can result in your nude pics being showed to other people.....a typical guy , is going to show off his pics to the fellas any day, its in the male nature
     
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    I would never show intimate pics of my woman to my closest male friend. It would show to him that I am not serious about her and all respect is gone.
     
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    Lol i have never shown off a girlfriend, i have been shown normal pictures of faces and stuff if a friend was proud of that or facebook profiles, but never more. I myself don't even do that, my girls will meet the friends that are close to me anyway sooner or later, no reason to brag with pictures, and especially not pictures she gave me in confidence.

    This really is no question about male bounding, it is a question about how you deal with confidential matters of your girlfriend.
     
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    It's not, that is pretty immature and a show of insecurity that you need to brag, in fact it is pretty much pubertial behavior.
     
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    confidentiality yea, but the typical average male is going to show off pics, regardless....their is some out their , like you who won't but n my opinion most will and have done so
     
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    That is a pretty self centered point of view.
    I have no representative no numbers either, all i can say it is neither normal for me nor for any of my close friends. So i seriously doubt that it is in the nature of man to do it, i also doubt that the average male is going to do it, i do however not doubt that there are plenty of man out there who will.
     
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    your statement insults men.

    you attempt to justify a shitty behaviour by accusing most men of being the same. if most of your friends would do it then all that says is that you hang around with a lower class of person.

    no decent man would do such a thing and, as the boys above me have already demonstrated, there are plenty of decent men.

    you could find groups of men who think sharing child porn is ok and harmless. finding others who agree with them doesn't make them any less repugnant to those of us with morals.
     
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    That Is In N Way Or Form A Self-Centered Point Of View...And As You May Have Read Before This Post, Some Guys Out Their Like You Haven't Done So, So The No Representation Part Was Pointless.. Open Your Mind, Open Your Eyes, The Average Male Either Have Or WIll Show A Nude Pic Of His Girl...Men Like To Show Off, Prove Who Got The Baddest, Its In Our Nature To Be Show Offs....Think About It..Open Your Mind And Stop Walking In The Dark And Stone Ages
     
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