Male "brothel" question for you ladies.

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  1. Wish-4-8

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    OK ladies, I doubt any of you would have to pay for sex, so i am speaking hypothetically.

    Lets say it a girls night out and you just want to get laid, by a good looking guy, hung (or not), etc. Basically, you get to pick what you want since you are paying for it.

    My guess is that a male brothel, (if it exsists) would probably service a large gay clientele also. So here is the question inspired by this thread: http://www.lpsg.org/164756-my-one-penis-related-wish.html

    Would it bother you to know that the guy you are paying to have sex with also services men? And is this a double standard?

    Because it certainly does not bother men in womens brothels. If anything, its a turn on.
     
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    you REALLY want a answer?
    REALLY?
    Don't get angry at me...
    But, I would not care..
    I will NEVER pay a guy to do me..
    I will maybe watch him do another guy.
    But, I still would NOT pay to see that either.
     
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    That is why its hypothetical.
     
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    He could have slept with extraterrestrials for all I'd care, just so long as there's a condom on his dick when he does me.
     
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    ha ha!! gotta have the rubber!!
    I like it RAW though ...
    :biggrin1:

    I just been LUCKY as hell that I never caught the BUG...:eek:
     
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    I echo what she said, and I'll add that if there was oral I'd insist on a condom and/or dental dam as well.
     
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    honestly, i'm really not sure if i'd be ok with being with a man who has been with men.
    or rather, i wouldn't want to know. at all.

    like the other women said...IF i were in the situation where i was paying, i'd want to know that these men got regularly tested, wore a condom, even for oral.
     
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    I can't get past the prostitution part.
     
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    Wouldn't bother me even slightly. As a matter of fact, I think it's hot depending on the men. I suppose if I imagined the other men as hot as the one servicing me, I'd be a happy camper. As far as the protection thing goes... I think it's fair to assume that a good portion of people would want to know that things were safe. I'm not sure that the prostitution/protection were really the focus here.
     
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    I agree with snarky, I think it would be hot. And I would imagine both to be hot. That's a complete turn on. Why not? Men are all over this fantasy, two women?, so, why wouldn't turn women on? Or some women? LOL, not ALL men are into the two women fantasy are they? So.....

    But two guys? Hot. Very, very. :)
     
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    Somehow I just cannot get my head around this. First, I would not cheat. Second, I would not pay to cheat. Third, I just wouldn't do it. I'd rather spend an evening alone with my vibrator than seeking relief in a whorehouse.
     
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    Again, I don't think the prostitution is supposed to be the point. I think the point is whether or not you'd be bothered by the fact that he had slept with men. It's hypothetical because were pretending or assuming that you would, in fact, pay for sex. (*points at the first line of the OP*) It's not like he's being literal and saying "So, the next time you pay some hot guy to fuck you...". Imagination is a beautiful thing. I don't have to pay for sex, nor would I ever but I can put myself in that situation, in my mind's eye. What's the big issue?
     
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    Well, in theory yes it's hot..I'd love to have a stud I could just order around and then leave (well if I wasn't seeing anyone) but in practice not so sure. I'm a germophobe, so not sure about the prostitution thing. But in a fantasy world yes. Bisexual guys don't bother me, I think it's hot.
     
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    *points up* Love this girl :)
     
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    it would bother me more that he's shagging me for no reason beyond money. yuck!

    but i'm turned off by bi men, if that's the real question. don't ask me why because i don't know.
     
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    Being a germaphobe, I wouldn't touch this situation with a ten-inch pole. Any "extras" in my relationship have to have a long term partner with a long-term clean medical history and recent test results. Condoms alone are no guarantee.

    So a brothel situation is out of the question.

    And while I'm not adverse to man-on-man-oral during a threesome, I would probably leave the room and throw up if I saw a guy fucking another guy. I think anal is gross and unhygienic. As far as I'm concerned, the minute anal happens, the party is over until everything is scrubbed clean... preferably with Lysol.
     
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    Men in brothels supposedly was quite common in roman times. It's still kinda crazy to me to think about paying for sex...but I'm gay so sex isn't so hard to find. Of course the cultual and social context today is so diffenetnt than back then. I don't remember if the TV program addresses whether the men involved pleasured men an women or specialized in one.
     
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    Very interesting responses. Actually quite surprising. What a learning experiance!

    And again, one of the reasons this is all hypothetical is because thinking about something is different than doing it. I dont know if it would have helped to describe the "brothel" as very clean, hygenic, and safe. Like the Bunny Ranch in Nevada where there is safe sex and regular testing.

    I guess I wanted to see the differences in the way men and women think about things. And we got just about every different kind of response here.
     
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    Lot of different responses and can see why the reaction to the idea of a male brothel, but there are plenty of male escort type services out there that may be in name exclusively for women but presumably the guys only stick to that while working for that particular agency! So though the women here clearly aren't enamoured, what demographic of women keep that kind of service alive??
     
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    Lonely, old, wealthy, and desperate. :frown1: The kind of woman whose family or ex-husband makes the Fortune 500 lists annually. The kind of woman who needs an escort for her numerous black tie invitations. They sometimes call these men 'walkers'. It's an easy and lucrative way for a handsome, intelligent, yet ultimately lazy man to earn a decent living.
     
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