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I've been playing with chastity devices for awhile. Check out my albums for pictures. I'm not as big as you so I am using smaller devices. Generally I like the smallest cage/tube that is comfortable. The bigger ones get in the way of everyday movement, especially when I'm wearing jeans. I like the Holy Trainer V3 a lot but my current favorite is the metal one in my album. I stayed away from the CB-6000 style because of the multiple parts and external lock.
 

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What happens when an erection is unavoidable? It sounds like it could not only be painful but couldn’t physical damage to the penis occur?

Erection control is part of the purpose in using a chastity device. The discomfort from an aroused cock that is confined serves as an indicator that something is happening that isn’t supposed to happen, namely hardness that could lead to relief without permission. It’s a bit of a mind-game between two (or more) participants engaged in a form of dominance & submission. Usually leads to enhanced physical relief when the device is removed and stronger emotional bonding with the other partner(s).

"Erection control" may be a feature of the intentions of some practitioners of the chastity kink, but I don't think there's anything about the essence of the kink that suggests it's inherent or universal. Maybe some actually like the chastened partner to get erections to increase the desperation of the experience. I think that is the focus for some, rather than absolutely preventing any orgasms.

To answer the biological question (noting that I am no expert), my sense is that the circulatory system doesn't tend to pump more blood into appendages than is allowed by the current pressure. So it's not like one's body will try to force a full erection despite not having room for it. However, there are devices that allow for most of an erection, even with a somewhat above average sized penis. The device is pressed downward along the penis by the pressure. In case that's a concern for you. I wore one for a while in a certain D/s relationship, and never experienced severe discomfort when getting an erection.
 

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"Erection control" may be a feature of the intentions of some practitioners of the chastity kink, but I don't think there's anything about the essence of the kink that suggests it's inherent or universal. Maybe some actually like the chastened partner to get erections to increase the desperation of the experience. I think that is the focus for some, rather than absolutely preventing any orgasms.

To answer the biological question (noting that I am no expert), my sense is that the circulatory system doesn't tend to pump more blood into appendages than is allowed by the current pressure. So it's not like one's body will try to force a full erection despite not having room for it. However, there are devices that allow for most of an erection, even with a somewhat above average sized penis. The device is pressed downward along the penis by the pressure. In case that's a concern for you. I wore one for a while in a certain D/s relationship, and never experienced severe discomfort when getting an erection.
but it is hurting when you become horny ;-) !?
 
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but it is hurting when you become horny ;-) !?

Certainly chastity can be arranged in a way to promote that if it is the desired outcome (e.g. Iron Maiden Spiked Chastity Device ... :imp:).

In the former relationship I mentioned, though, the focus for us was just my Dom having control of when I was allowed to touch my genitals in the typical erotic way. Given that purpose, my being in pain wasn't really called for, nor was it called for that the device I wore be one where I couldn't get an erection.
 

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IMHO, Chastity falls into the realm of kink and as such it requires trust and guidelines for safety. A number of posts in this thread have already provided good advice so I won’t drone on.

In 2007 my wife and I decided to transform our marriage from vanilla to a femdom relationship. Ours was quite timid in that everything stayed the same except for the bedroom.

I was interested in chastity but she was not. I purchased a device thinking that may persuade her—visions of a key dangling between her breasts were dancing in my head.

She wanted nothing to do with it and I found it easy to escape. I ordered a second device. It was metal with a 3” sound incorporated. There was no escape from this cage.

Finally she agreed, but not as I was hoping. She told me to throw the devices away if I wanted her to keep me in chastity. Then she told me that she expected me to remain chaste to her as my sign of love and respect for her. No devices.

At first I was very disappointed but as time went on it became very intoxicating for me. She would regularly ask me if I had been ‘good’—I’m not a great liar. A few times she asked me to masterbate in front of her—she was checking for volume. If I only produced a few dribbles she would know I had broken the rules.

This post is already very long and I want to get to most important point. We continued on for ten years with me in chastity. It evolved over time to the point where intercourse was rare. I am either really good at giving oral sex, or really bad at intercourse. I can tell you her orgasms from oral were far more intense. There were more than a few times I thought she was going to pop my head off she was squeezing so hard.

After she came she rolled over and went to sleep, but not before telling me there was no release for me tonight.

It is very difficult at first, but as time went on I adjusted. My psyche changed. I was always horny as hell and I followed her around like a puppy.

It makes her sound cruel, but she was not at all. She poured love out on me, and if at any time I told her I wanted to change the rules she would have done so. I am certain she didn’t know how our relationship would evolve but I know she loved keeping me in chastity.

The point is that ultimately you as the one being kept chaste must maintain that control. Set guidelines for safety and for ending chastity play. Make sure your relationship is full of love and trust. Then if embrace chastity, it can take your relationship to heights of intimacy that go way beyond sex.

Enjoy!
 

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IMHO, Chastity falls into the realm of kink and as such it requires trust and guidelines for safety. A number of posts in this thread have already provided good advice so I won’t drone on.

In 2007 my wife and I decided to transform our marriage from vanilla to a femdom relationship. Ours was quite timid in that everything stayed the same except for the bedroom.

I was interested in chastity but she was not. I purchased a device thinking that may persuade her—visions of a key dangling between her breasts were dancing in my head.

She wanted nothing to do with it and I found it easy to escape. I ordered a second device. It was metal with a 3” sound incorporated. There was no escape from this cage.

Finally she agreed, but not as I was hoping. She told me to throw the devices away if I wanted her to keep me in chastity. Then she told me that she expected me to remain chaste to her as my sign of love and respect for her. No devices.

At first I was very disappointed but as time went on it became very intoxicating for me. She would regularly ask me if I had been ‘good’—I’m not a great liar. A few times she asked me to masterbate in front of her—she was checking for volume. If I only produced a few dribbles she would know I had broken the rules.

This post is already very long and I want to get to most important point. We continued on for ten years with me in chastity. It evolved over time to the point where intercourse was rare. I am either really good at giving oral sex, or really bad at intercourse. I can tell you her orgasms from oral were far more intense. There were more than a few times I thought she was going to pop my head off she was squeezing so hard.

After she came she rolled over and went to sleep, but not before telling me there was no release for me tonight.

It is very difficult at first, but as time went on I adjusted. My psyche changed. I was always horny as hell and I followed her around like a puppy.

It makes her sound cruel, but she was not at all. She poured love out on me, and if at any time I told her I wanted to change the rules she would have done so. I am certain she didn’t know how our relationship would evolve but I know she loved keeping me in chastity.

The point is that ultimately you as the one being kept chaste must maintain that control. Set guidelines for safety and for ending chastity play. Make sure your relationship is full of love and trust. Then if embrace chastity, it can take your relationship to heights of intimacy that go way beyond sex.

Enjoy!
Thanks for sharing....sounds very nice.....
 

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I've been playing with chastity devices for awhile. Check out my albums for pictures. I'm not as big as you so I am using smaller devices. Generally I like the smallest cage/tube that is comfortable. The bigger ones get in the way of everyday movement, especially when I'm wearing jeans. I like the Holy Trainer V3 a lot but my current favorite is the metal one in my album. I stayed away from the CB-6000 style because of the multiple parts and external lock.
Where did you get the metal one. I have a PA and was wondering about the metal one that looks like wire. Thanks great pics
 

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Where did you get the metal one. I have a PA and was wondering about the metal one that looks like wire. Thanks great pics
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I assume that you mean this one. Actually, all of my devices came from Aliexpress. Just search for "male chastity" This one is the most comfortable for me and should work well with a PA. My only complaint is that there is always a bar obstructing the urethra which makes it impossible to form a single stream when taking a leak. This design almost requires one to sit while relieving himself.
 
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I assume that you mean this one. Actually, all of my devices came from Aliexpress. Just search for "male chastity" This one is the most comfortable for me and should work well with a PA. My only complaint is that there is always a bar obstructing the urethra which makes it impossible to form a single stream when taking a leak. This design almost requires one to sit while relieving himself.
Great Thanks. I have learned to sit because of the PA. It just is easier. Thanks again