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as long as there are no implied consequences of it. if your dorm mates are just nudist and there are no further advances then go for it. after a while, you will eventually get used to it and it won't bother you anymore as you are fully aware that he is just being himself...
 

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Breasts, pussies, and dicks are body parts. We are born with them. The idea of being offended by the sight of one is very odd in my opinion. As long as they are not harassing you then what's the big deal? I can't imagine having such delicate sensibilities.
 

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I never really lived in a dorm; and I never go to the gym. I will explain why i listed the two locations, when they are not similar.

At the Gym, i believe it is a courtesy , rule to wipe off a bench or other piece of equipment one uses, when one is done.
Nudity in the dorm, changing clothes, should not be a factor. However sitting around the apartment / dorm nude. I do not think there is a way to wipe off fabric, after a persons rear has been planted on it ( it gets hot in the eastern part of America )
 

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I went on a residential trip at school and there were about 20 guys to a dorm and a student teacher also. No one gave it a second thought to be naked in the dorm with each other. I thought it was especially hot seeing the student teacher naked, his big swinging cock in the showers. But this is part of growing up and being a man, seeing what other guys have between their legs, hanging out naked together.
 

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I went to college in the '70's. I lived in the dorms 3 out of 4 years. Most had 4 suites to a floor - a section with 3 or 4 rooms which shared a bathroom and the suite had one entrance which was often locked. Naked in front of roommate? Always. Often would walk naked to the bathroom. There were two showers and we would always strip naked (if we weren't already) before getting in the shower. Towel off after naked. Possibly shave, brush teeth, etc. at the sinks naked and then return to our room naked. Girls were often in the suite and if then caught a glimpse of you naked - no big deal. One time in the dorm a guy from the adjoining suite challenged me to a backgammon tournament (I was the guy to beat) and I played naked just to distract him. In the gym - naked in the locker rooms and communal showers. I also did a lot of backpacking with friends sharing two person tents - changed in front of each other. Whenever the opportunity presented itself - swam naked - often with girls present and sometimes they would participate.

I'm not sure what happened to us but we sure did spend a lot of time naked and thought nothing of it. It used to be normal.
 

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It's not that I have any problem with nudists or nudity. Instead, I'd like to say that those parts can be celebrated by being a bit selective of when they are shared with others, and make their appearance not so common beyond showering, sleeping and sex.

Nudity is special in my book and should be reserved for special occasions, so I guess like Confidential, posted above, I would prefer hangout time in shared house spaces to be in boxers/briefs/PJs etc. After a shower, absolutely shave naked at the sink, or get naked to sleep at night- its all good- and i'd expect any and all sort of reciprocal behavior for me without judgement or expectation.

If we shared a bedroom space ..., well, more is gonna be seen regularly. Soft, semi, floppy or hard and throbbing, it's fine, because a roommate situation should be a successful friendship that comes from trust, respect, and compromise- and comfort where nudity lies will balance out if everyone is honest and strives for a safe space for all. If not, move on.

If I am staying at a friend's home, I certainly want to be invited back, and so it's important to be respectful to the host and remain a bit more reserved and conservative than i would be if I was alone. I will at least stay even to the dress of the host and/or other house guests- being aware of how everyone else is acting around me, and proceed from there. If it was a true CLOTHING OPTIONAL space and everyone was completely textile free, then I'd probably participate.

If I was staying at a hostel with strangers, that's when I could (within legal constraints) choose to set the tone for others and hang out wearing less- especially if i knew i would never be there or with those people again. But be warned: if there is an expected space where people would have reason to be naked- such as a locker room, dressing area, or swimming pool, I won't be towel-dance shy.

If my housemate wanted to watch something spicy, and decided to strip down for some sexy playtime, well that's a good reason to get naked- meaning I would give him some private time to indulge, or wait for invitation to join in myself if I was in the mood.

If nudity comes from one of these 3 reasons, it is no longer 'weird' and I think it's easier for others to be comfortable with it.
 
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are you guys cool with your dorm mates being totally naked?
Spent years going to swim and gym so nothing you have will cause any emotional response.
On a hostel anyone can enter the room anytime the sex separation I think is ment to protect woman, if you have to change do it fast.
If you are nudists my only point against would be the one that pointed @ronin001, if you are a horn dog that can’t control their urges nor get a proper place to get them perhaps a shared place like a hostel is not for you.
 
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My one roommate would always turn his back and put his underwear on underneath his towel and while it was always cool because that is what makes him comfortable, if the vibe isnt chill for me to rock out with the cock out when I see fit then Im moving the fuck out and finding a new place to swing my fucking branch haha. I never did around him because I didn't want to make him feel uncomfortable but I eventually did move and found a new roommate that didn't give a fuck when we were naked and changed in front of each other freely as fuck. It def was a super chill vibe and made living together way more enjoyable because you didn't have to worry about offending each other or making the other uncomfortable. For me, changing while always having to make sure you dont show balls was the worse haha
 

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Spent most of my life seeing dudes naked - my brothers, my homies, dudes in locker rooms, so no big deal. It ain't about being consciously nudist lmao, more like not really putting any thought into it. You just shake off ur duds if u need or feel like it with ur bros around, no big deal, with them doin the same either to chill or to change, or hit the showers...