male ejaculation and orgasm the same?

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The mainstream view is that everytime a man cums he's orgasming. I don't think I agree with this. While each instance of ejaculation is great occasionally, I experience much richer sensations as I usually cum(sometimes it's dry cum). I feel all my thigh and stomach muscles contract and my penis feels like it doesn't wanna let go and eventually when it does my whole body goes into a cramp, heart pumping like it's about cum itself and breathing uncontrollably. Now that's what I call an orgasm. Other instances are more like tension relief. They feel great but don't compare. I'd like to read about your experiences and opinion on this matter.
 

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I agree sometimes when I cum it's not much to it, but other times I feel it all over. I even have to yell out in estacy.
 

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You can have internal and external orgasms. The external orgasm is the typical ejaculate, cum, writhe, fell good all over that we most often think of. You can have an orgasm, though, without cumming... If you work on breathing, taking deep breathes as you are getting aroused, yhou could probably "redirect" the orgasm inward.
 

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I agree sometimes when I cum it's not much to it, but other times I feel it all over. I even have to yell out in estacy.

Never understood how some guys that I've seen in porn didn't get the ugly face and basically scream out or have some body jerks. For me, every ejaculation is intense!

I read somewhere online that ejac and orgasm don't always equate. A guy can bring himself to the point of ejac, squeeze those special muscles that hold it back and have a dry orgasm. This is different from edging or stopping just before you reach the point of no-return. The orgasm can be extremely intense and little to nothing comes out. The reaction to the penis is even similar to if you've had the ejac; it goes soft and you have to raise 'the flag' again!