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  1. charlesman1986

    charlesman1986 New Member

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    i'm just wondering how well hung guys would go aboout escorting? and how to advertise it?

    there must be some male escorts here who have regular customers because of their 'talent'?
     
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    yes i am also interested in this!!!
     
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    I have escorted but stopped after I finished school. It was a geat experience in my book and I don't regret it. There are agencies a guy can list with or they can work solo as I did and advertise on any of a several escort sites on the net. If you do it, either as an escort or as a patron, always, always play safe no matter what (e.g. use condoms).
     
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    yeah that's cool. I'm just wondering ihow you would go about advertising the fact that you're well hung, are there any escort websites or agencies that cater for us?
     
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    An alternative would be to sell yourself on a site like gay.com to local customers, build up a clientel of 5 or 10 guys who pay your use of your body per trick, and add to your list only as guys drop interest in you or you drop interest in them. Unless you are looking for a high volume of men to buy you on a regular basis, an internet entourage would be a simple solution. There was a recent movie about this kind of set up called "Boy Culture" about a guy named "X" who worked along these lines. You should watch it.

    Boy Culture - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    Boy Culture

    That being said, I've known a few male hookers, and the phrase "sell your soul" is not wasted in describing what this has done to them. All I have known have become desensitized to relationships, prone to depression, and have developed antisocial behavior. NOT saying all male prostitutes are this way, but all of the ones I have known have been this way. There are a lot of other ways to make money without diminishing your value to a financial figure.

    Good luck.
     
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    oh i was thinking of non sexual escorting... for women mainly....
     
  7. charlesman1986

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    ahh right that looks like a good piece of film, i was thinking of straight escorting, i'm not completely straight but with women you're safer and the 'sell your soul' aspect doesn't seem so true.

    i'm not wanting to make career out of it but being taken out to dinner and pleasing ladies seems like a good second job
     
  8. exwhyzee

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    Thats cool, but the advice still stands. You would need to meet women who are lonely and of means, and make it clear that you are for hire. You can do that carefully through Craigs List and other similar venues to the same effect, developing a small list of clients who you trust and who trust you. Never forget that its not about you getting wined and dined by women, its about women getting wined and dined by you (and they pick up the bill). Its all about them, its not about you at all.

    Just for the record, I dont think female escorting is less rough on the soul than male escorting.

    You would almost be better of finding a cougar who will take you on as a "kept boy" to spoil and have sex with...legally.
     
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    INteresting replies Ex. I can see how sex for a living would really complicate yr personal life.
     
  10. charlesman1986

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    cool that's great advice ex, yeah it would be good to be a toy boy to a lady in the rich part of town:redface:
     
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    That being said, I've known a few male hookers, and the phrase "sell your soul" is not wasted in describing what this has done to them. All I have known have become desensitized to relationships, prone to depression, and have developed antisocial behavior. NOT saying all male prostitutes are this way, but all of the ones I have known have been this way. There are a lot of other ways to make money without diminishing your value to a financial figure.

    Good luck.[/quote]

    does anyone feel that looking at porn on line also desensitizes themselve to sex?
     
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    I have been an escort for lots of women. It started out as non sexual - they just wanted arm candy to make their friends/exes jealous. I went with one, then she told her friends, then they told their friends, then it was word of mouth. It was mostly charity functions, opera, and parties. Of course after the parties were over and we had a lovely time and were back at her house for a nightcap..........well that ended up meaning breakfast in the morning. It was never my point to have sex. I was happy to play my role as a gentleman and very sanguine, social fellow to squire them about and the fact that they wanted to have sex with me was a nice thing.
     
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    Goodwood: That's exactly how I did it. Until now, I had thought I was the only one who had done it that way. I had done that for the longest time until I hit 28 then got out of it. When I started working for a limousine company, I accidentally picked it up again (yeah, right :biggrin1: ) and found that the limousine business is perfectly suited to go along with it. Almost like the 2 businesses were made for each other.
     
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    I did it when I was in college. It wasn't hard to find client make an "escort" screen name and hang in local chat rooms. In addition to safe sex you need to watch out for your personal safety. don't meet anyone who blocks their phone number, that type of common sense thing.

    It worked for me. :)
     
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