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I need some advice from other males.
How'd you spark up a friendship with a guy you'd like to know?
I'm rusty as fuck and just can't seem to recall how getting to know someone works.
Basically there's this guy at work and whenever we're near each other, there is an atmosphere, well, to me there is. I'm assuming he's straight, as I'm bent, so attraction aside, how'd do you extend friendship to another man? It's got that bromance, just good mates feel to it but isn't really igniting. Ok, I've spoken to him only a handful of times about work issues that are relevant to the moment, and that's it.
I have few male friends, and don't really understand instinctual masculine shit all that well. No I'm not camp or girly, just a bit, well, individual. I'm not rough, sporty, or car mad and kinda clueless. The male friends I have have been because I've worked directly with them and friendship arose through surviving work. Well, I don't work that close with this guy.
I'd like the chance to get to know him as a mate but don't know how to approach it?
Any advice guys?
How'd you spark up a friendship with a guy you'd like to know?
I'm rusty as fuck and just can't seem to recall how getting to know someone works.
Basically there's this guy at work and whenever we're near each other, there is an atmosphere, well, to me there is. I'm assuming he's straight, as I'm bent, so attraction aside, how'd do you extend friendship to another man? It's got that bromance, just good mates feel to it but isn't really igniting. Ok, I've spoken to him only a handful of times about work issues that are relevant to the moment, and that's it.
I have few male friends, and don't really understand instinctual masculine shit all that well. No I'm not camp or girly, just a bit, well, individual. I'm not rough, sporty, or car mad and kinda clueless. The male friends I have have been because I've worked directly with them and friendship arose through surviving work. Well, I don't work that close with this guy.
I'd like the chance to get to know him as a mate but don't know how to approach it?
Any advice guys?