I'll 2nd, (or is it 3rd) the rimming...
If I move right to anal it taked a lot of effort on both parties, and I don't really enjoy it.
The times I've first been rimmed, and then gently had a finger or two up my ass, that makes it ssooooo much easier, and it makes me so horny for it and it's much more fun that way.
So try some gentle ass play, with lots of spit/lube first to get your sphincters relaxed first.
If I move right to anal it taked a lot of effort on both parties, and I don't really enjoy it.
The times I've first been rimmed, and then gently had a finger or two up my ass, that makes it ssooooo much easier, and it makes me so horny for it and it's much more fun that way.
So try some gentle ass play, with lots of spit/lube first to get your sphincters relaxed first.