Its the best feeling there is, bar none, and it seems that virtually every man would say that. It feels so good that often I cant believe how good it is.
But yes, its very difficult to describe, impossible really. Sometimes I think its almost as if the pleasure of all the stimulation becomes just too much and trips over itself, a bit like when you run so fast that you stumble and trip up because of it. But that doesnt truly describe how it feels.
Im a shooter but I dont think that contributes to the pleasure particularly. One thing that I find enormously pleasurable is the feeling of the jism at it spurts through my rod on the way through. But that's got nothing to do with shooting or not, it's the fluid passing through and more importantly probably the spasms. This is made all the greater if theres pressure on my cock, which is one of the reasons why coming inside pussy feels so good if its tight then that feeling is made all the stronger. Of course, if she can squeeze at the right time it can go beyond ecstasy.
well said, well said.I think the orgasm is about more than just the ejaculation. I think it is the whole experience.
For me it starts the moment i begin getting an erection and as I feel my penis grow and fill with blood. It really makes me feel masculine. If I am with another man I love it when he touches me and cups my balls. I leak a lot of pre-cum which usually happens pretty quickly and I can feel my arousal increase. I'm not a huge fan of getting oral sex (I know, weird) and much prefer anal (usually as the top). After getting lubed up that first penetration is heaven and the hotter/more horny guy I'm fucking is the more turned on I get. Then you start feeling your balls pulling up, tighter and tighter and there is a slight tickling/tingling feeling as the fluids start to get churned up. Then thrusting harder and harder "that moment" arrives - the so called point of no return. And you know you can't, and don't, want to stop it. My cock grows to it's largest and hardest and the contractions start, deep down in the prostate and the cum just oozes shoots out (not very far for me) and you just can't stop it. And you just want it to go on and on, to get every last drop of cum out. One thing that happens for me 75% of the time is that I have a second orgasm: after I cum and the squirting has pretty much stopped, if I keep stroking I literally have a second orgasm where my penis flares again and I literally feel like I am ejaculating again, with a second round of contractions although nothing more usually comes out.
I do think how your ejaculations shoots affects how it feels, but it also affects how it makes you feel about yourself and your sexual prowess. That you can shoot your sperm forcefully and, in conception situations, increase the probability of getting the sperm to where it needs to get, it makes you feel more like a man. In gay situations the force with which your partner cums makes you feel that you have aroused him to such a high degree that his ejaculation was so heavy and intense that it makes you feel like you are a good lover.
You mentioned the fluid passing through, but doesn't that mean piss would give you an orgasm? Is it because it's semen?
What does a male orgasm feel like for you?
Are you a shooter? Do you like it? Do you think shooting cum affects how an orgasm feels?
Oh, and I meant to say also that trying to categorize my own orgasms in this way lead to my theory of female orgasms as well. Since both male and female parts originate from the same tissue to start with, it makes sense to me. I have no idea what they feel like, relative to make orgasm.
1) Clit orgasm: this is the most common since is it can easily be achieved by fingering or oral. It can sometimes be achieve with penetration with the base of your dick grinding against her clit.
2) Vaginal orgasm: this would be more like the g-spot orgasm. I think it must be more like the prostate or "behind the balls" orgasm for a man. It includes waves of pleasure in the clit and pussy muscles as well. His one would be more easily achieved with deeper penetration, so being well hung would make it more likely.
3) full body orgasm: same as for the man. Combines both previous orgasms but with more intesity and involving more muscle groups.
these make sense to me, and even explain why size is more important for some women than others. A smaller guy can get a chick to a number 2 orgasm with skill and positioning (motion of the ocean) but a hung guy might get her there without that effort. On the other hand, a chick that only has or is satisfied with a clit orgasm wouldn't care about size at all.
What do you guys (and girls) think?