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This post is based on one I did in another thread that was talking about a guy who jacked off by standing in front of the toilet. That led me to think about my own jacking patterns as a young man.....


In college, I had the same roommate the entire time. For most of the time, our dorm room had a private bathroom with a shower. So no walking down the hall after freshman year.

I always jacked off at night but I hardly ever jerked off standing in front of the toilet. I always jerked in bed into that day’s t-shirt. Then showered in the morning.

My roommate always showered at night, so that was my chance to jack it.

Later, after college, my roommate told me that he always jacked off into the toilet while showering at night.

So, in reality, both of us were college men jacking st the same time... me on my back in bed and him standing in front of the toilet, with only a door between us and the sound of the shower... then he’d come out of the shower and we’d both sleep with the waning feeling of orgasm between our legs, him on the top bunk and me below.... we did this every night for 4 years and never knew it until 10 years later.

Looking back on it, that kind of pattern to male jacking is pretty interesting. We are all creatures of habit, and with the exceptions of crude jokes, we college guys kept our self pleasure habits on the down low. Although, in reality, everyone was doing some variation on the same thing.
 

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This post is based on one I did in another thread that was talking about a guy who jacked off by standing in front of the toilet. That led me to think about my own jacking patterns as a young man.....


In college, I had the same roommate the entire time. For most of the time, our dorm room had a private bathroom with a shower. So no walking down the hall after freshman year.

I always jacked off at night but I hardly ever jerked off standing in front of the toilet. I always jerked in bed into that day’s t-shirt. Then showered in the morning.

My roommate always showered at night, so that was my chance to jack it.

Later, after college, my roommate told me that he always jacked off into the toilet while showering at night.

So, in reality, both of us were college men jacking st the same time... me on my back in bed and him standing in front of the toilet, with only a door between us and the sound of the shower... then he’d come out of the shower and we’d both sleep with the waning feeling of orgasm between our legs, him on the top bunk and me below.... we did this every night for 4 years and never knew it until 10 years later.

Looking back on it, that kind of pattern to male jacking is pretty interesting. We are all creatures of habit, and with the exceptions of crude jokes, we college guys kept our self pleasure habits on the down low. Although, in reality, everyone was doing some variation on the same thing.
I believe life would be better for all guys if they simply jacked off together. Nuthin like that camaraderie. It's too bad that society makes even college guys keep this on the down low. Of course, I've read about college roommates situations where one guy just comes right out and says, "I hang out in the room naked and jack off all the time. I hope that's ok." In these stories, it's always ok. Of course, I wonder if they're realistic. They seem like fantasy to me.
 

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I believe life would be better for all guys if they simply jacked off together. Nuthin like that camaraderie. It's too bad that society makes even college guys keep this on the down low. Of course, I've read about college roommates situations where one guy just comes right out and says, "I hang out in the room naked and jack off all the time. I hope that's ok." In these stories, it's always ok. Of course, I wonder if they're realistic. They seem like fantasy to me.

I might be from a different generation, but nobody in my circle would ever suggest jacking together or even being naked together more than was absolutely necessary.

This was also back in the day when porn was on VHS or DVD only. And we used to go the the local video store that had porn vids in the back room and rent some. We would watch together, but never jack. A common joke would be for a friend to say “ok, got to go, guys” and return to his own room. We’d all joke that he was going to jack it, which was most likely true...
 

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I might be from a different generation, but nobody in my circle would ever suggest jacking together or even being naked together more than was absolutely necessary.

This was also back in the day when porn was on VHS or DVD only. And we used to go the the local video store that had porn vids in the back room and rent some. We would watch together, but never jack. A common joke would be for a friend to say “ok, got to go, guys” and return to his own room. We’d all joke that he was going to jack it, which was most likely true...
Well, guys from a certain era were/are SO panicked about nudity that this doesn't surprise me (see the infinite number of posts about lockerroom nudity and younger guys).
Your comment, tho', seems to support that these anecdotes about a roomie being totally open about jacking all the time feels mostly like fantasy, tho' I wish it were true.
 
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I had a good friend and we were in Vegas for a week. He and I were sharing a King bed and 2 guys were on the sofa bed and a blow up mattress in the living room.

We watched porn one night and were both grabbing away over our clothes- clearly horny at what was on the TV. I hear his breathing pick up and he gets up, boner visible in shorts and walks to bathroom closes door and I pull out and start wanking away and he finishes up in bathroom and walks out while I’m close so I just keep going and shoot.

He said “did you have to finish up in bed?” And I said “what’s the difference, you did it 8’ on the other side of that door? We both needed to!” And he was so embarrassed I knew what he had just done. He’s been weird about it.

Have a work buddy who we both know at night he goes to shower and jacks off in the bathroom and I in the bedroom. We openly told each other we’d try to make it known (conversation thru door or something) when he was about to exit when sharing a hotel room. We’ve been drunk and jacked in the dark in our own beds tho. No words shared during, but after a “that was good” and “much needed” comments like that can be shared. Once it was both us being done and we both said “good night” to each other.
 

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I had a good friend and we were in Vegas for a week. He and I were sharing a King bed and 2 guys were on the sofa bed and a blow up mattress in the living room.

We watched porn one night and were both grabbing away over our clothes- clearly horny at what was on the TV. I hear his breathing pick up and he gets up, boner visible in shorts and walks to bathroom closes door and I pull out and start wanking away and he finishes up in bathroom and walks out while I’m close so I just keep going and shoot.

He said “did you have to finish up in bed?” And I said “what’s the difference, you did it 8’ on the other side of that door? We both needed to!” And he was so embarrassed I knew what he had just done. He’s been weird about it.

Have a work buddy who we both know at night he goes to shower and jacks off in the bathroom and I in the bedroom. We openly told each other we’d try to make it known (conversation thru door or something) when he was about to exit when sharing a hotel room. We’ve been drunk and jacked in the dark in our own beds tho. No words shared during, but after a “that was good” and “much needed” comments like that can be shared. Once it was both us being done and we both said “good night” to each other.

How old were you and your buddy in Vegas?

Is he still acting weird about it? Or weirdness only lasted that night?
 

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I might be from a different generation, but nobody in my circle would ever suggest jacking together or even being naked together more than was absolutely necessary.

This was also back in the day when porn was on VHS or DVD only. And we used to go the the local video store that had porn vids in the back room and rent some. We would watch together, but never jack. A common joke would be for a friend to say “ok, got to go, guys” and return to his own room. We’d all joke that he was going to jack it, which was most likely true...
Would you have availed yourself of the opportunity to jack together if it had been presented? Would you do it now? Your original post sounded kind of wistful, which is why I am asking.
 

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Looking back on my college days, I now realize that there were a couple of opportunities to play with another guy that I was too dense to see at the time.

One was a guy on the wrestling team, who joined my friends and me for a midnight swim once. By luck, the locker room to the pool hadn't been locked, so we went in to dry off and change. He kept saying how blue his cock was because it was cold, and what could he do about it? I joked with him that that was quite the predicament, and good luck with that. We had a good laugh. He kept his towel over himself, and I never caught so much as a glimpse. I was very much in the closet at the time, though I get the feeling everybody knew anyway.

Another time, same guy...we were in the TV room, just us, and he kept putting both his hands in his lap, as if he were holding his hard dick, one on top of the other, with his thumb extended. When I asked what he was doing, he said he was estimating about how big he was. I said something snide, that that was about right for me too (it was, after all), and how nice for him. We went back to watching TV.

I think that he was trying, awkwardly, to come on to me. I certainly thought he was straight, as he had had a girlfriend with whom he was very loud, ahem.

Now, I don't know whether he just thought he could get a non-reciprocal blow job from a gay guy, or what. That wouldn't have worked for me at all. But how great would it have been if custom had dictated that we, as guys, could just whip it out and jack together? No judgement, no labels, just mutual acknowledgement of our maleness, and enjoying being part of the fraternity?

I guess that's why years later I did so many circle jerks at the gym!
 

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Would you have availed yourself of the opportunity to jack together if it had been presented? Would you do it now? Your original post sounded kind of wistful, which is why I am asking.

At the time? Probably not....

Looking back on it now? If I knew for a fact the rest of my life and friendships would unfold the same, sure.

That’s the problem with those sort of situations. If you put yourself out there for something new, it could ruin something good you’ve got. It’s jot dissimilar to the old good friendship deciding if they want to date.

So, no I don’t regret anything. If anything i was really just expressing how clueless we were. Even tho it should have been pretty easy to figure out.
 

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Looking back on my college days, I now realize that there were a couple of opportunities to play with another guy that I was too dense to see at the time.

One was a guy on the wrestling team, who joined my friends and me for a midnight swim once. By luck, the locker room to the pool hadn't been locked, so we went in to dry off and change. He kept saying how blue his cock was because it was cold, and what could he do about it? I joked with him that that was quite the predicament, and good luck with that. We had a good laugh. He kept his towel over himself, and I never caught so much as a glimpse. I was very much in the closet at the time, though I get the feeling everybody knew anyway.

Another time, same guy...we were in the TV room, just us, and he kept putting both his hands in his lap, as if he were holding his hard dick, one on top of the other, with his thumb extended. When I asked what he was doing, he said he was estimating about how big he was. I said something snide, that that was about right for me too (it was, after all), and how nice for him. We went back to watching TV.

I think that he was trying, awkwardly, to come on to me. I certainly thought he was straight, as he had had a girlfriend with whom he was very loud, ahem.

Now, I don't know whether he just thought he could get a non-reciprocal blow job from a gay guy, or what. That wouldn't have worked for me at all. But how great would it have been if custom had dictated that we, as guys, could just whip it out and jack together? No judgement, no labels, just mutual acknowledgement of our maleness, and enjoying being part of the fraternity?

You said it, buddy!

I guess that's why years later I did so many circle jerks at the gym!
They are indeed the best!
 

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I had a good friend and we were in Vegas for a week. He and I were sharing a King bed and 2 guys were on the sofa bed and a blow up mattress in the living room.

We watched porn one night and were both grabbing away over our clothes- clearly horny at what was on the TV. I hear his breathing pick up and he gets up, boner visible in shorts and walks to bathroom closes door and I pull out and start wanking away and he finishes up in bathroom and walks out while I’m close so I just keep going and shoot.

He said “did you have to finish up in bed?” And I said “what’s the difference, you did it 8’ on the other side of that door? We both needed to!” And he was so embarrassed I knew what he had just done. He’s been weird about it.

Have a work buddy who we both know at night he goes to shower and jacks off in the bathroom and I in the bedroom. We openly told each other we’d try to make it known (conversation thru door or something) when he was about to exit when sharing a hotel room. We’ve been drunk and jacked in the dark in our own beds tho. No words shared during, but after a “that was good” and “much needed” comments like that can be shared. Once it was both us being done and we both said “good night” to each other.
That's super hot. Real life stories go like this. You can tell this is legit and not a fake fantasy someone wrote and claimed was real.
 
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I suppose the furtive nature of self pleasure is more common then I've experienced. I've been fortunate enough to have friends so close that we can discuss practically anything. My best friend and I joke all the time or beating our meats or sharing a lament any issues with having a large cock. I'm sure there are times we've been in the same apartment in different rooms both jacking off.
 
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When I was in college, I was still very closeted. My freshman year, I lived at home (the joys of going to school where you grew up). The sophomore year, I moved into the dorms. I got put into a triple, I had 2 roommates. The one roommate was 17 and he dropped out of school within the first 2 months. The other roommate was my age, 19, and he had been in the same room the year before. He knew a lot of people in our dorm and he was also pledging a frat, so a lot of the other pledges and frat brothers were coming to our room a lot.

I was usually too scared to jack off in our room. The one time I did try it, both roommates were supposed to be in class, but mid-jacking, I heard the door being unlocked just in time to cover up as one of the roommates and 3 other guys walked in. After that, I kept my sex life confined to the bathrooms/gloryholes in the other campus buildings.

After the 17 year old had disappeared, the other roommate and I shoved all of his belongings into his closet and we used the extra furniture to make a room divider. There were many nights the 19 year old roommate would come home late from pledging and he would be drunk. He would get into his bed and start jacking off. I couldn't see him because of the room divider, but I definitely recognized the sound of him jacking off. At first, I just laid there and listened. But after a few times, I started joining him by jacking off from my bed. He was pretty loud when he was jacking, so the more I jacked off with him, the louder I started getting. I don't know if I was wanting to get caught or maybe to actually join him, but he was always drunk and he never caught on that I was doing the same as him. I would have loved to have joined him, he was really hot and had a nice body. I never did see his dick though.
 

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Looking back on my college days, I now realize that there were a couple of opportunities to play with another guy that I was too dense to see at the time.

One was a guy on the wrestling team, who joined my friends and me for a midnight swim once. By luck, the locker room to the pool hadn't been locked, so we went in to dry off and change. He kept saying how blue his cock was because it was cold, and what could he do about it? I joked with him that that was quite the predicament, and good luck with that. We had a good laugh. He kept his towel over himself, and I never caught so much as a glimpse. I was very much in the closet at the time, though I get the feeling everybody knew anyway.

Another time, same guy...we were in the TV room, just us, and he kept putting both his hands in his lap, as if he were holding his hard dick, one on top of the other, with his thumb extended. When I asked what he was doing, he said he was estimating about how big he was. I said something snide, that that was about right for me too (it was, after all), and how nice for him. We went back to watching TV.

I think that he was trying, awkwardly, to come on to me. I certainly thought he was straight, as he had had a girlfriend with whom he was very loud, ahem.

Now, I don't know whether he just thought he could get a non-reciprocal blow job from a gay guy, or what. That wouldn't have worked for me at all. But how great would it have been if custom had dictated that we, as guys, could just whip it out and jack together? No judgement, no labels, just mutual acknowledgement of our maleness, and enjoying being part of the fraternity?

I guess that's why years later I did so many circle jerks at the gym!
I know the feeling. Looking back on my college year, there were several times where I think other dudes (and girls) were trying to start something, and I was too dense to realize what was happening.

Ah well
 
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